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Ok here's the scenario...I have been talking with a celebrity rapper who is a friend of mine for awhile now. We only talk every so often as he is a busy person and I am too. But I am starting to like him alot and I think he knows it. We have just been playing things cool. I asked him his thoughts on a woman making the first move on getting to know a guy and this is his response "a girl makin a move is cool too.. lets u know shes a woman who knows what she wants and not afraid 2 take the 1st step at it". Is he hinting to me that he is open to me making the first move? He and I have been talking for some time now and he is a VERY sweet and nice guy. He's always complimenting me and checks to see how I am doing and he calls me baby. What should I say as I am trying to go further with him and getting to know him more? How do I go about making the first move? I have never made a move on a guy before and have other male celeb friends that are interested but I like him more than them.

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I really like him. I have been around celebs mainly rappers and I know how to handle that lifestyle without being labeled a groupie or fan. I treat them as regular people. I really want him to like me the same way I like him and it seems that way...just unsure how to go about making that move....

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think he is definately interested if i were you i would invite him over not letting him know you plan on escalating to a relationship but do something special you know he likes:) like give him a massage or cook for him this something needs to just be the two of you...you can plan it based on his interests which quite obviously i do not know.. Ask him personal questions and don't forget to let him get to know more about you too... anything you can relate to that he tells you say.. this will defiately bring you closer together... GOOD LUCK:)

  • 1 decade ago

    Well for this subject is easy, and you basically already know the real score. You know him and that lifestyle on what women they really want. They explain it in their rap, or is it gospel rap. Either way, the results are the same. You already know he is probably seeing many other women who made their first move and what the relationship has turned out. Just become another notch on his belt, not to be judgmental.

    Do what most women do when they want get with somebody, just talk. I know rappers also, and I see how they really treat the women. Go for yours. You know the answer and you can't escape being labeled a fan or groupie when these guys talk behind doors. You would be considered another girl, nicely said.

    If you truly work around the "celebrity rappers" then you really know what I am writing. Stop the question and go for what is natural to you. Just don't fall for I like you, and there's another waiting behind you. A regular guy does the same, your interesting in being a main squeeze, good luck.

    Note: Don't pay attention to the picture. I am not a female, but a straight guy using a female picture, because I respect women, closest image to my girlfriend.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What do you mean by a celeb? Who are you and why do you know so many celebrities? Sorry for sounding paranoid but why do you speak like you're some celebrity yourself?

    By the way I don't think he is making the first move, if he is then he isn't serious about you. If he likes you that much he will ask you out himself and not wait for you to do it.

    My advice is don't think about it in the way where you should make the first move and perhaps try to get somebody in your league that's not a celebrity if you aren't one cause they have this habit of looking for greener pastures.

    Source(s): Experience
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I know how it feels to be told that you're so lucky to know famous people. Really it's nothing big. So they have a great job that makes tons of money, they're normal people.

    Anyways if you really think he likes you why not make the first move. I know it may be pretty scary being in the 'first move' spot but some guys think it's hot when girls make the first move instead of them.

    Good luck, and remember to always treat him like a normal person.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I don't believe in women making the first move, especially with celebs. Maybe I'm just old fashioned but think of it this way... imagine how many girls he has making moves on him on a regular. Maybe he likes that you're not one of them and appreciates the chase.

    I would recommend doing something very subtle that hints that you're interested but does not go as far as asking him out. Maybe mention that you're going somewhere (group setting) and hint that he can come and see if he bites.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't be afraid to show him how you feel, i'm pretty sure he likes you back. If he said he like when a woman knows what she wants, then go for it! Tell him something like...want to grab a drink on the way home, or just call him on the phone, and ask him out, and remember, if he rejects you, its HIS loss, Not yours! Good luck! X

  • 1 decade ago

    i think he wants you to make the move. he's trying to tell it indirectly. what i would advice is, make the move. just be daring and make sure ev'rything's under ctrl. but before going into a serious relationship, you better check his personal life. coz i believe celebs has many bfs and gfs at a time. you should know whether he is really into you or just your body.sorry, i have to say this! coz guys can be cruel at times.

  • 1 decade ago

    If he says that he's cool with it, he means it and you should go for it! From what you said though, he sounds like a nice guy and sounds like he likes you the same way that you like him. Just keep up your confidence and you'll be fine!!

    And wow, this is actually i pretty cool situation to be in. You're lucky, I don't know in famous people. lol

  • 1 decade ago

    He's a rapper. He thinks it's kool to be a player. Just keep that in mind.

  • 1 decade ago

    i think that you should make the first move...but make sure he is not calling anyone else baby....but i hope it goes well for ya be careful i would be upself for ya if it didn't to well. but hopefully it will

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