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This really hurts me...Bff suddenly ignoring me ?

My best friend suddenly doesn't talk to me anymore..at parties, when we're out, on Y!M, doesn't call, doesn't text me...What's wrong?We didn't argue, and the last time we actually interested both of us were friendly.

We even used to comment other friends together, share secrets, we were really close and now we're like strangers in only a week.

This is really hurting me.

I know I could ask but I feel I've done my part and I decided to ignore him back for a while, anyway he would probably shrugg it off, tell me it's nothing.What could be possibly causing our friendship to agonize?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    The best thing to do would to be talk about this with him. Otherwise you will never find out what is truely going on. Just ignoring the situation will not get you anywhere but more frustrated. I can not answer what could cause this since i don't know either of you but if i was in your shoes the only thing that sounds rational is to talk.

  • 5 years ago

    Umm, no offense but, I think you're being a little to clingy. Maybe you should just relax for a while and if he messages back don't hurry to answer him. You do not want to come off as desperate. I mean, you never know the guy could have family troubles or was robbing a bank(Just Kidding). Hope I helped.

  • 1 decade ago

    He probably has feelings for you. See my best friend and I have been great friends for yearsss but there was one year when I grow feelings for her and backed away. Thats going to happen if your a girl and your best friend is a boy or vesa versa. Try talking to him and see whats up you know don't let a such a good friendship go to wasteee

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    okay this is like the best question for me cus i went throught the same exact thing this year.

    i have my bff since like 2nd grade and all of a sudden this year she just started ignoring me and started getting "popular" i guess.

    i mean im pretty popular myself but she just went like boy crazy and even left all of our friend's lunch table unannounced.

    the best thing to do is to move on and forget her because anybody who would leave you all of a sudden like that isn't worth your time, or your friendship.

    that;'s what i did. i kept my entire circle of friends and even made more without her. on my profile on im i made a list of all the good times i had with my best friends to show her we were done.

    it hurts me too to know that such a good friendship is now done...

    but remember that is was their fault, not yours.

    just keep your cool (: don't let it get to you

    Source(s): my own personal life is my source (: lol
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  • 1 decade ago

    just give it a break. my best friend and me used to be like that but as weve matured weve not been so like that as we have met other people and furthered our friendship group but we still text each other just not every day and we make time to meet up at least 2 times a week and we r still very close. people will grow apart as you get older but you still no that their there for you as i know she is for me

  • 1 decade ago

    Honestly, the best you can do is ask. Even if they shrug it off at least you will know that you tried your best. Sometimes friends just grow apart. Good Luck.

  • Ronae
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Sorry to hear about your friends recent behavior.

    Unfortunately, the only way you'll know and hopefully find out is by asking him.

    Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    This happens in friendships sometimes, especially in JHS and HS. You could ask, I mean maybe you did something you'd be sorry for if you knew you did it... or maybe they are just jerks and you're better off without their friendship.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't let your friend's problem become your problem. You have done everything in your power. It is now time for your friend to respond. You can't do anything more.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sit her down and talk to her. Maybe someone said something. Ask her

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