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how do i get my ex gf back? do you think shes still thinking about me?

my ex gf samantha and i have been broken up for about a week and a half and for this week ive been going crazy! she asked for space and because i respect her im going to do whatever i have to 2 win her heart and love bak. we currently haven't spoke in 5 days today but 2 nights ago she sent me the first text in a while and it just said goodnight. i replied with a goodnight also but thats it. and the next day after i recieved her text she didnt call or text me or anything! i thought that was kinda weird becuz outta nowhere she just told me goodnight.. well b4 we broke up last week we had been dating for a year and 5 months. what should i do? should i keep giving her the space she requested? people are telling me that shes thinking about me the same im thinking about her, but i find it hard to believe because she hasnt tried contacting me or anything for the past 5 days besides that 1 text saying goodnight. help please!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    The text is a good sign. If you went out for over a year chances are good that she still is thinking about you. Just be patient and give her the space she's asking for. If you start pushing her she may turn around and run. It's only been a week and I'll bet it seems like forever but if all she needs is time you can give her that much.It may be worth it.

  • 1 decade ago

    She is DEFINITELY thinking about you. Otherwise she wouldn't have sent the text. Also, in sending the text, she was trying to stay connected to you. Sounds like she's not ready to let go, but at the same time she needs space because maybe something is wrong int he relationship that she thinks might get healed with space. So I would say continue to give her space. Let it go for about 1 month. Seriously. I know that sounds like a long time, but it could just do the trick for you guys. After a month or so, check back in with her and take it slow from there.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    When she wants space she means it literally. You guys have been together for a year so she wants time to think over what she wants in her life. Just give her some time to think about what she wants. She may or may not be thinking about you. That's not the point. The point is to respect her wishes of time and space. Good luck. If she does or doesn't come around, there are always more girls out there. Again, good luck.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It's a big thing for a woman to initiate some kind of communication. So take it as a good sign, but if you are desperate to talk to her than why don't you? Ask her if it's possible to talk to her in person or over the phone and let her know how you feel. It's really easy.

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  • 1 decade ago

    wel it is kinda weird tht she said tht she needed space after dating for a year and a half...so y dont u try talking to her and just tell her exactly how you feel mayb there is another reason tht she didnt wana see u anymore other than her needing space if u talk to her and really open up to her and tell her exactly how you feel she will probably do the same. if she really didnt wana see or talk to you at all anymore she wouldnt have txt u trust me! mayb wait like another week or so and c if she tries contacting u again and if not then its ur turn to call/text her.

    hope this helps!

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like she's having second thoughts. Let her make the first move since she broke up with you.

  • 1 decade ago

    im pretty sure that she is still thinking about you, b/c she sent you 1 text.

    since she wanted some space then i would just continue giving it to her. hopefully she will realize that you want whats best for her.

    best of luck.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think u should go for it!!!! Y not? tell her u miss her u had been going out for a while so maybe it still works but if not maybe u should start something new

  • 1 decade ago

    well bracking up with someone is hard i do think she is still thinking about you it takes time to get over someone that you really cared about but that is life and you move on

  • 1 decade ago

    i will say give her some space , but once in a while text her to say hello , so that she will still know that you are still waiting for her.

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