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How do I be his friend?

So, we started living our lives in sin. He tried to cheat on me ((girl pushed him away)) . I cheated on him. We came back to God two months later, both came clean, and were both devastated. We've been broken up for about 2 weeks now, and I still love him, he still loves me.. He says he wants to be with me but wants to be "friends" until he can easier face our situation. What I did, and who I did it with, and how I did it was more aweful than what he did to me by ten times at least.

How do I be his friend for now? I know what I did was wrong, and I'm dealing with it

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  • 1 decade ago
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    you can't be friends. you should just go your seperate ways and remember what you had in the past and leave it at that. what you did happened to me. I am not friends with my ex, there will always be that baggage in the friendship or relationship. it's better to move on for now. that way you both can repair the damage of what happened. you should tell him the same thing. that is what helped me. and i'm sure he needs to move on as well. it can be frightening at first but time without contact is the only thing that can heal.

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