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y asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

What is it with girls?

I like this girl, but it seems like her and her group of friends are always after a friend of mine that is, for lack of a better word, a d bag. What is it with girls and always liking the asshole. He lives with his mom, basically just sleeps with girls, never really caring about a relationship. He does run his own business, but is always drinking and going to the bars. Me, I work for a very good company. Not the most outgoing person in the world, but I know how to have a good time, have my own place, dont rely on my parents. What is it? She knows I like her, but I am kind of at a stand still.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    MayB he has more girlish caracther.. MayB he is cuter or he has sumtin different than u.. I dont know but I think i should have picked u not him! My option!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ok, you know that saying "girls like assholes, women like nice guys". Every girl goes through a asshole stage you know why? Because they act aloof (because they don't care). They have confidence that the nice guys lack because they usually think they "finish last". You don't have to be an ***, just work on self esteem and then find a new girl lol

  • 1 decade ago

    Sorry to tell ya, but you're just looking at the wrong girls. Most women aren't attracted to guys like that- and if they are, these guys aren't considered long term potential, just a fling.

    If this girl likes this guy instead of nice-dependable you, maybe she needs to grow up a little bit. Do yourself a favor and find a woman mature enough to appreciate you.

  • 1 decade ago

    well, at least youll be a succes in life. In the next 5-10 years youll probably see him selling bananas on the street or something like that.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think that girls just like a little bit of a bad boy. Girls like just a little bit of a challenge. We don't want to date someone that is a complete push over. We don't want someone to agree with us ALL the time. Because then it would be like dating ourselves. Or maybe she isn't quite the catch you think she is. Maybe all she wants is a booty call.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ask her out. If she turns you down, that's life.

    Are you sure you want someone like her anyway? I mean, I guess she's cute, but does her taste in men tell you anything about her values?

    There are lots of women!! Just find another cute one that you like -- you'll forget all about the first one real quick.

    Good luck, dude.

  • 1 decade ago

    I know what you mean- unfortunately girls usually go for the a**hole - until they wanna get married- then they want the nice guy with the good job

  • 1 decade ago

    maybe she scard of asking u out u need 2 ask her out

  • 1 decade ago

    tell me about it man, if you like her then go for it, but dn't change the way u are just for her

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