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Ladies, what are you HONESTLY and personally looking for in a guy?

Ladies, what are you HONESTLY and personally looking for in a guy? Appearance and personality wise. For example, I look for girls that are energetic and willing to take risks. (e.g. Someone who never Bungee jump before, but who's willing to try it with me.) Appearance wise; I want a girl that has a good build but not too thin, which shows that she exercises and care about her body, but does not fall in to the pressure of going on extremes to lose weight.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Looks - nice hair, teeth, eyes, tall.

    Personality - Ambitious (not lazy or wanting to be stuck in dead end job), kind, good sense of humor, loyal.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Okay. A lot of girls don't like guys that are way to generous but they don't like guys that are pushing them and telling them what to do either. Appearance really doesn't matter but don't be dirty. We like guys that smell good and have nice hair and clean clothes. Even if youaren't that attractive, after being with you so long your personality will overshadow your appearance and we won't even notice what you look like or what your flaws are. For me, I like a little bit of adventure in a relationship but not enough to cause it collapse. Anything to keep it lively.

    Another thing is it's really hard to be specific about what you want in a girl like you describe because it will be almost impossible to find someone exactly like your description. And even if you do, it doesn't mean that you're her perfect match made in heaven.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Good hygene, takes care of what they have physically, emotionally and mentally. I like guys that have that 'goodness' about them. I just can't be bothered with a guy that looks and acts 'tough'.

    My recent craigslist ad said:

    "If monogamy and care are your strong suit. And you put the needs of people above the needs of work, hobbies, etc, then I am looking for you. I am just this way and looking for a man who wants to get to know a wholesome woman.

    If you are not attached, in any form, and looking for same, reply with full name and more about you."

    The thing is that isthe most important thing to me. And other things come after that. I am very attractive, but don't feel putting that in there because I don't want a man responding to me and pretending to be what I want.

    Anyway, off to work... if you know a guy like that -send him my way! BTW you wouldn't believe how many men do NOT respond to this ad.

    The women who sell how they look and give the promise of sex get most of the responses, but I just want a man with substance.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    ok, John D....what? besides i do no longer think of the concern with immediately's society stems from the "spanish conversing nannies" as you call them elevating our toddlers. that is our very own own values that shape the human beings our toddlers exchange into. i became raised by using old college mum and dad (i'm in basic terms 27) and that i be conscious of that the gov't does no longer be accountable have been I to be a deviant.Thank God i'm no longer nonetheless and my mom went to grad college finished time and nevertheless ran our homestead finished time on an analogous time as my father went to artwork. Sorry, even people who didnt' improve up in the Cleaver kinfolk contributors grew to become out positive with those sturdy old shaped values our society seems to be lacking at the instant.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I don't know about bungee jumping, but I like a guy who likes doing different things, compasionate and firm, exciting, loves to joke and have a good time, not too stressful, loves to cuddle and walk and hold hands, not worried about what others think of us being together, motivation and loves sex.

  • 1 decade ago

    Honestly,i look for loyalty and care in a guy,he must be faithful to me,as i hate liars.He should be the one who is able to stand by my side even if the whole world is against me.With a good personality and very romantic.

  • 1 decade ago

    um well the number 1 thing for me is that they act the same when they are alone with me and when they are with their friends. they aren't embarassed to be around me and they are funny and just know how to have a good time. they are really honest about their feelings and care about me alot. i can tell them everything and they will listen. appearance: not scrawy, not fatt, just inbetween. i prefer hair like,a LITTLE longer but it doeasnt really matter. well pretty much, appearance wise, just NOT ugly. haha

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  • Nitro
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I like a guy who is sweet, friendly, ambitious, motivated, funny, smart, considerate, humble, honest, moralistic, and sincere. As for looks, I'm not really picky. I'm able to see a guy as outwardly attractive if he has an attractive personality.

  • a guy with a great personality, sense of humour, ambition, willing to try new things, isnt to cought up on himself, care, has emotions and is cute with a nice smile and is polite

  • 1 decade ago

    Guys who are willing to go out on a limb.

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