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I slept with my best friends ex, should I feel guilty?
I slept with my best friends ex (they broke up about 2 months ago). She and I have always been friends and one night i spent the night at her house and we were drunk and had sex. We talked about it and decided we didn't want a relationship but wanted to keep having sex. We haven't done it again yet, but are planning on it. I waited a week to tell my friend. My other friends said not to tell him but I felt bad. He was pretty angry, but he said he was mostly just angry that I didn't tell him, and more just surprised that it happened, but I think he might just be using that as an excuse to be mad at me. I feel bad mostly about keeping it from him.
Should I feel guilty about this? I asked him as a hypothetical before this happened what he thought about me dating her, he said that he just didn't want problems from it occuring down the road, which I respect, and therefore was uncomfortable of it. He was very clear with saying he had no feelings for her though. Should I keep up the sex?
10 Answers
- Abby JoLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
Dude thats just messed up lol. U def cannot date this girl cuz that would be awkward for ur friend. As for the friends with benefits thing I bet u $100 one of u, prolly her, will eventually begin to have feelings for the other person. Not good if this girl is ur best friend's ex. My advice is to find someone else to screw.....bros before hos!!!!!
- 1 decade ago
When you say that your best friends ex and you have always been friends that means to me that she is not someone new in your life and that basically your relationship with her changed from just being friends to being friends with benefits. Your best friend told you before that he didn't have any feelings for her but that he didn't want problems from it down the road. That means that you should keep your relationship with his ex out of your friendship with him. Don't feel guilty since you didn't do anything wrong but DO expect him to secretly hate you.
- 1 decade ago
I think "ex" is the key word here. although it's not really a good idea, because ex might still have feelings for the girl, the fact still remains, it's an EX. I don't think you should have told your friend anything, but since you did, be prepared for him to keep bugging you about your future sex life with this girl You really don't owe him any explanations, or information when you do this girl.
- 5 years ago
To be honest, I want but i can't blame you for this, because i have been there before being the other woman. I slept with him, but we are both conscious about it and he ended up divorced with his wife. Now they are separated, he remarried another and so was his ex-wife and i am still right here with a boyfriend at least.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
How would you feel if your best friend dates your ex? Is having sex with a girl that you don't even love worth losing your best friend's friendship?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think you should tell her if she finds out from someone else she will be mad. I was in the same boat I made out my friends ex when they had broken up that day. But i called her and told her after and told her it was a dare cause it was and she wasn't mad. But i had a crush on him when i made out with him so it was cool!!!LOL ROFL LMAO IFF (i'm f***ing funny)
Source(s): Been there done that - Anonymous1 decade ago
Sleeping with your best friends ex is messy. Aren't there any other available chicks in our area,sheesh?
- 1 decade ago
He is probably hurting cos its only like 2 months ago they split. If he is happy that he doesn't want her then go for it.
