why would he cancel?

It may have nothing to do with you at all. He sounds like he's just not considerate enough to call or anything when something else comes up. Some people are rude that way. So if you like him as a friend, just take it in stride. But, I think you are more into him and seeing things romantically since you think he is attractive. He might just be seeing things totally differently and that's why he asked if you wanted to "hang out" again (meaning "not dating.") He probably would ask differently if he really wanted to date. Also, don't make yourself so available to him. That's how guys can take you for granted. Right now, it sounds like he wants a "standby" so when he gets bored, he has someone to "hang out" with. So, if you want, just have fun and "hang out" like buddies, if you can handle that. But, tell him, you better call next time if something comes up or I'm not hanging out with you anymore (in a lighthearted funny way). If he doesn't follow thru then it's time to find someone more reliable to "hang out" with.

He more than likely has another girl. He just does not know how to politely tell you and does not want to hurt your feelings. It is just best to right him off and let it go. I am sure there are plenty of other guys out there that would be more than happy to go out with you and be your friend. Granted he should not treat you this way it is not the thing to do and not what a real man would do. Good Luck.

He could have canceled due to a family problem, or something like that. He could've gotten cold feet too, and he's nervous about dating you. When you go back out with him you should have a one on one talk with him, explaining that you're confused and try asking him why he's been acting weird.

If he wasn't into you he wouldn't have asked you out on another date. When you do talk to him be as open as you can and tell him that you like him, and you still do want to hang out with him. But you're confused about how he's been acting and that he doesn't HAVE to tell you, but it would clear allot of things up if he did? You'll have to talk to him, random people on the internet can't really tell you his reasons for acting the way he is. =/ Hope you can work this out!

Well first things first, don't think the worst!

Maybe he had other ''issues'' to attend to.

Or maybe he forgot.

Either way he still wants to hang out with you so it's not all bad..

Don't pin your hopes up on this one guy but also don't let him go that easily.

Take care and good luck!

x o

he's rude, good riddance! move on to the next. either way he is flakey and not worth the emotional pain. find the right one or the next best one!

he could also be having serious issues at home or at school, it may not be you, either way, he could have and should have called. that was rude. move on and enjoy your life!

that is rotten not to pick you up for the 2nd date.

he might like you, but maybe a little nervous about getting close to you.

He's eihter confused or not into you...but its most of the time its cuz hes not into you....

after a deep analysis of this situation my professional opinion is.........he's gay

i think u should move on

hes not into you so forget him