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Why won't my boyfriend sleep with me?
PLEASE HELP!!! I've been with my other half for nearly two years, i'm 17 and he's 22. We used to have a really active sex life but then just before last Christmas he started wanting it less and less often, now we will go weeks without sex. I've tried everything but he still never wants it, he will just say he's tired or he wants to watch something on TV. I have low self confidence anyway and this is making me feel a million times worse, i'm eating more and have gone from a size 6 to a size 10 in just a few monthes. How can I make him want me again? and why has he stopped?
I did suspect him of cheating with a work colleague (I found messages on his phone telling her he loved her etc) but hes been transferred to a different store now so even if he was before I know he isn't now.
Please help I'm desperate I really just want to feel loved by him again!!!
Just thought I'd mention that both issues have been discussed and he says he hasn't cheated on me and that he dosn't know why he dosn't want it anymore! In fact they have been discussed several times but hes the kinda guy who would never tell you whats really going on or how he really feels.
O and we didn't sleep together till I was 16 and not underage!
7 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
If you don't love yourself no one else will. Just face it he's getting it somewhere else if he's not getting it from you. First try to talk to him if its still the same issue he's just using you and please dump him.However, before you start dating other people fix that self esteem issue men don't like it when women have these issues and some even take advantage of the situation. (like he's probably doing) If you hate your weight do something about it talk to close family/friends about why you feel the way you do. Remember if you aren't confident in yourself and love you NO ONE ELSE WILL.
Source(s): I was going through he same thing at one point - 1 decade ago
There is no substitute for having an open and honest conversation. It is possible that he may be cheating on you. I hope that is not the case. It could be stress related. Relationships need to be based on more than sex. If you have a strong enough emotional connection with each other, then you should be able to get through this. Men need sex, so if he isn't having it with you, he is likely getting it elsewhere. (unless, as I mentioned, stress is causing his libido to go down)
Also, I would suggest find another way to deal with your feelings than eating. Try some type of exercise that you find fun. Biking, running, aerobics, boxing, swimming, etc.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Tell him how frustrated u are. Tell him!!! Or u can spice things up in bed. Try this. Surprise him. When he's sitting on the couch just say. "I need it right now and if u don't satisfiy my now I am going to go insane." It worked for my friend so I would think that it would work for u. : )
Good LUCK!
Source(s): My brain. . .duh! - 1 decade ago
you know it, you have to confront him, you know him well enough to, he'll know how you are feeling as well.
The text messaging sounds really bad, you need to confront him on this also.
Im rooting for ya.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
its never good to be desperate
