for you pinay girls, to become oldmaid or disgrasyada?

If im a girl better to choose oldmaid. than disgrasyada.

I wouldn't settle for either options. I wont allow myself to be caught being a "disgrasyada" (what a term!), nor grow old unmarried. If I am already getting old and still no man took notice of me, then I would probably move heaven and earth and seduce one of Adam's tribe and force him to marry me to avoid being a "disgrasyada".

I would rather be an oldmaid.

if I'm not ready for marriage, I won't do it just because I'm pregnant. I don't mind being disgrasyada. if by having a child, I'm destined to be old maid, it's ok. being a mother is more important than being a wife.

=)) If i am old and marriage is really at the end of a never-ending tunnel, then I'll probably prefer to have a child. But then, that's only me.

Well..I don't reallt understand what these terms mean so I guess I'll have to pass...sorry..I'm only half-Filipino...

if i were to choose i prefer to be disgrasyada if not ending up to marriage.

having a child is a blessing and it won't matter if i don't have a hubby...yay!

oldmaid.

i don't want to raise a kid at the wrong time.

old maid i think.