When writing letters to get to know a person, what do you write about that won't seem so self centered?

Just ask questions about the other person. Tell them about your world and what is happening. Just write as you would talking to a new person. Simple.

Just stick to the last line! Going into all that detail was way too much for any guy! I think keeping it short and sweet is good....and leaves him to figure out why you left.... everything else is unnecessary, since it will make him see how badly all this affected you! Don't give him that luxury of knowing you've been hurt deeply by his stupidity! Leave him in the dust.... He is not worth your time! Not even a second! Move on and squoosh him to the ground!

why not send him a fun survey -- asking questions about himself that you want to know -- tell him that you will take it to. Then, pick a certain day and a certain time, you can both mail back your responses so they arrive around the same time. I just did a quick Google Search "get to know you survey questions" -- the first link is listed below, "The Ultimate Get to Know you Survey". Good Luck!

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I wouldn't worry too much about it. As long as you find a good mix between talking about yourself and asking about him, you should be fine. If you have clicked as well as you say, he's already going to be inclined to think of you in a positive way. Remember, he wants to know these things, so he's going to be happy your sharing it with him.

you need a guy who likes to speak few but to listen much

I agree with Modest.

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