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am I being used?
I met this one guy.. the first time we hung out nothing happened.. we met up again.. and we made out briefly, he calls the next day, says he will call again and doesn't.. for 2 weeks.. calls me up again. i go over, watch a movie.. and it becomes a little more sexual... however, we both became more open and playful to the point of thumbwars... and talking about personal topics.. He says he's bad with phonecalls, but is making an effort to call me.. after this went on for a couple weeks i asked where we stood.. he said he really likes me.. and he thinks i like him and that we should continue to get to know eachother better.. problemo i'm moving back to california for school. think he really likes me? or is just using me and won't commit because i'm leaving? my friends think i'm just a booty call because we don't go on dates and we keep ending up hooking up after we hang out. how do i get him to take me seriously? if he's not? are my friends right? advice please!
8 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Sounds like he is using you. I have been in plenty of situations like you. Guys are dogs. You gotta watch out girl. Guys that are more respectful will get to know you first and want to date you, not just hook up each time you hang. Kissing only leads to more and more. Trust me, i know. Its always been the same. Guys who take things fast are bad news...as much as they use there sweet bull talk, mostly they are lieing. BUT..you should always talk it out....maybe..(not likely) hereally does like you and not just for hooking up.
good luck girl and be smart.
Source(s): experience. ;] - 1 decade ago
YES! you are being taken advantage of when he has no other option. He doesn't want to commit to you, or get to know you better. If he has issues with how to dial a phone, how do you think he would be in maintaining a relationship? Let alone a long distance one. Move one girl, you can do so much better and you deserve it.
- 1 decade ago
if he cant phone you now, will he really be able to when you're in california? he may like you, but if you two can't talk on the phone, you're gonna go months at a time with little or no contact, is that what you want?
- 1 decade ago
IMO...if you guys aren't officially together and doing these things what couples do...yes, its a relevant to being "used". It's pretty much friends for benefits when you think about what's going on with your situation.
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- 1 decade ago
My friend Anissa is in the same situation, it could be that he dosnt want to get that attached because your leaving soon and hes a afraid of getting hurt, not that he dosnt like you .
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well to be honest, there will be more hotter boys in california so don't waste your time in someone like that, someone that dosen't make the effort to ring you because he's "bad with phone call's" have fun in california
- Anonymous1 decade ago
yu not so being 'used'...its jus yur leavin...i think if yu jus get more time ttogetha yu mite find the answer to yu question yur self...adn i think these are those normal date things but jus look furtha..it mite not..he shuldnt rush into things.(thtas bad news) and be careful of the obstacles..
(there are beta answers than mine but i hope mine helped.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
sounds like this is just a fling. I really wouldn't take it so seriously. Just forget about him. I don't think it's going anywhere and his attitude sure isn't helping. :)
