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Would you be offended if ... ?

Your boyfriend / husband rented a hotel room for you on your birthday and he brought his video game console to play?

... and on another day spend about an hour with you, and around 5 playing a video game?

It just feels like he's losing interest if he'd rather play video games than spend time with me.

Am I being irrational here?

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  • xK
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    The hotel room, yes. The other one, probably. But it's not video games to blame; it's your man. He's not that into you anymore if he would rather spend time in a fantasy world than with you. I'd talk to him about it and, if it doesn't change, I'd find a new boyfriend.

  • just try to play the video game with him then let him win of course lol

  • 1 decade ago

    I HATE VIDEO GAMES! all of my guyfriends and guys i have crushes on are obsessed with them and play with all the time, and completely ignore me while they play. i hate it because they seem like different people. so i think its just a guy thing we have to learn to deal with.

  • 1 decade ago

    No, you're not being irrational

    Tell him it's you or the games.

    I did and I got my husband back - others are not so lucky

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  • 1 decade ago

    Man, I would have kicked his ***. Then taken his credit card and gone to a spa.

  • 1 decade ago

    no your not....brought his video game to hotel...thats wrong.

  • 1 decade ago

    thats not irrational at all. try talking to him

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i completly understand why you would be upset. i would be offended to. why dont you talk to him about it.

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