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SexSEXsex...... what is the best you have every had..... was it remarkable..... i keep reliving the thoughs of my ex and the way we had passionate, crazy, sensual, mind blowing sex.. that was 4years ago. our relationship ended badly. i have been with my now bf for 3years... and the sex well um.... isnt what it was with me ex. not saying my ex WAS a god in bed. but the way we conected while having sex. I have tried everything with my current bf to SPICE things up.. but its not there. I love him.. but miss really good sex..... yes yes i know a relationship isnt just based on sex..... but i belive it is a healthy part of a relationship.... what was your best. and what made it the best for you???!!! longest answer will get best answer be informational plz... thx denise
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- Brutal HonestyLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
It comes down to the intensity of ACCEPTED feelings you feel for the other.
For one, chances are, your just with this guy because he is "There". While the other guy, was sort of a fight to have him, you weren't sure you were worth him, he wasn't sure he was worth you, you were insecure and had no idea how to show some feeling, so you threw it all into the sex. (which actually could of been better, sorry, lol, you only have your experiences with it to compare, trust it gets even better) Which in a lot of ways made you better friends then what you've got here, which I more then sure your "White lie"ing alot, to help save his feelings, hurting the intensity of the feelings envolved even more. Lets put it this way.
Your old experience was REAL, your new experience is FAKE.
In the frist relationhip, you guys were being real with each other, letting the emotions GO WILD, and of course it ended because in the end, love doesn't garentee crap.
Now your faking it tell you make it in hopes of recapturing what you lost because deep down, your still lost to the old one, if not, you would of grown form the experience and learned better how to have a fulfilling relationship in the future. So get real with the new guy, and maybe if you guys don't breck up, you'll instead add passion and intensity to the act, it's just that simple.
The biggest indicator of this? (have tried everything with my current bf to SPICE things ) Tells me, you did everyone outside of just plan telling him, HEY BUDDY I NEED SOME PASSION STOP HIDING YOUR EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS AND LET GO FOR ME, OR I'LL LET GO OF YOU.
That would of ether spark'd him, or you would of found out, the boy didn't really know how to care about you, or feel for the sex, hence it isn't very good.....
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Tell him to sit on a chair like a kitchen table chair. Then just sit on top of him facing him & go to town. This position always gets both of us off. Also he is the perfect height to play with your breasts.