Sex sex and more sex......?

The absolute best sex I have ever had was not so much to do with the sex as it was with the unpredictability of the sex. We would be driving and we would both get so horny that we would pull over to some secluded spot and have sex on the car hood. Or sometimes just watching her her in the kitchen made me go for her and we would have sex on the kitchen table. It was always wild, hot, and very very satisfying for us both. We never made it a practice to just have sex because we were going to bed. It was definitely an anytime anywhere attitude with us both and I can say we had sex anytime and everywhere, beaches, libraries, every part of our apartment, houses, cars, you name it, we had sex there and not always just sex, sometimes it was just oral sex. Just depended on how horny the other person was. I would suggest that you try that approach to your partner now. Make it fun and make it hot. Also I must admit that department store changing rooms are fun too. Just thought I would add that.

My Gf was living with a real estate agent. We took the keys to someone else's house. Got in and ****** all night long. It was amazingly hot. We 69 and many more positions. We slept for 30 minutes and when we got up the floor was soaked. She was a small woman and I was an athletic type. I lost so much sleep because of her and it was amazing. It ended badly though because it was a good thing. I didn't want to see her go. Now I am in the same position as you.

I know exactly what you mean. My best ever was a lifetime and couple girls ago. It was 14 years ago, with the love of my life. Our lives were pretty much fueled by sex, drugs, booze, and rock n' roll. It was rock star love to say the least. Then one day, as quick as it came, it burned out. She quickly moved on and I dated and eventually married. That marriage is history and the love of my life is "sort of" back with me. At least back with me to support her while she gets her life together. We co exist because she doesn't have anywhere else to go, I deal with her because of how I have always felt. I know that the wind can blow either way; Either things will get more serious with us, or it won't and she will eventually move on to greener pastures. Did I mention we don't sleep/sex together now. She is "damaged" from whatever she has had to go through, maybe a little too much partying and the fact that she has had a sketchy past couple of years where drugs might have contributed to her being without a home, and I know you sometimes have to do what you have to do to survive. Of course now, I get her back, more damaged than ever, the sexless person, whom it will take time to get her back down to earth. I have given of myself to the point that got into some serious debt and of course set myself back some financially. Emotionally, I am have put my own wants and needs on hold to get back that love but eventually if she doesn't bring her feelings and more to the table, I will loose interest and move on myself. I think you can have that awesome sex but don't loose sight of the who treats you great and who is there for you if it is you current bf. I thought that I could get that spark back but I am afraid to say that maybe that ship has sailed and maybe it is getting close to the time where I should just let her go. It has been 6 months of struggle with the old flame but I think that time has made the flame go out. Do what you need to do with getting the extra in sex but don't mistake the value of love, loyalty and amount of sacrifice that someone is willing to give you for the sake of him just loving you for you.

It's definitely the connection that makes sex best. You don't have to be completely in love to have the best sex ever. In fact, most people admit to having a one-nighter that still curls their toes. What's the secret? It has less to do with love than it has to do with vulnerability (add both and you'll set off a nuclear blast!). When you are completely willing to open yourself to all the energy your lover is offering, you create a situation where everything is felt deeper and more intensely.

So many people have no access to themselves that sex with them can only be so good. When a lover shows up that truly opens themselves to you...

This is the recipe for mind-blowing sex!

When my boyfriend and I roleplay or give each other different power roles, it really intensifies the sex.

By power roles I mean one of us is the dominant and the other submits. Usually I submit cause I'm the girl and I basically do whatever he tells me to do. All in good fun - no fifty shades of grey here. YYou get everything you want and in return, next time we roleplay, we switch roles and he has to suck my toes (my personal kink)

Roleplaying also works wonders. My boyfriend is really into dominating me and I like to submit so it works out. He will sometimes tie me up like a hog and stick and apple in my mouth and take care of my sexual urges with a carrot in the... ehem. Then he pretends to eat me by nibbling sucking and squeezing different parts of my body.

Its all a matter of preference. Do what you both like. Make sex work for you. You shouldn't have to work for it. It should just happen naturally :-)

The best sex I had was with an older boy. He was really dominant and rough. He knew what to say and do to turn me on even more. We did it in 3 different positions and he was sooooo rough. He ****** me really hard and pinched my nipples and spanked my butt. And he cursed at me and called me names but it was part of the sex. He was so good it's shocking. I climaxed 3 times and it was amazing. I still have sex with him ;)

Me and my boyfriend have the most amazing sex. We do like to do it in the car or in the shower or in a pool but the one thing that makes it so exciting is having it a little bit rough. I love it when he pushes me against a wall and kisses me hard down my neck (hes careful and cautious not to hurt me) its amazing. When we are in a place where we shouldn't do it, it is so much fun to have him pick u up take u to the back room rip off your clothes and pound u hard. It makes me want him so much more when he shows he wants me more than anything

I met a guy soon after my divorce was final ...we barely new each other the first time, and that made us not care what happened ...we just went for it ..it was AMAZING !!

However, that didn't last, and now I'm back with the ex hubby, we love each other ..but the sex is ok, not great, just ok.

I just remind myself that sex with love is better than anything else !!

Dont have sex unless you're married to the guy!!! Im happily married, have 13 kids, and homeschool them all. The guy you really love will make it feel right and real. Not off the street sex. No abortions either!!!!!!

Ok I know you probably won't see this but I have to add mine. My boyfriend has a pool in his backyard and we had sex by the pool. He took off my bikini and then he poured chocolate all over my boobs and licked them. It was the most erotic thing I've ever done. :) Add food to your sex life and it will be AMAZING.