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How do I make her stop?
This girl likes me and wont leave me alone. I try the cold shoulder and now she makes things up to impress me and make it look like we have interests but theyre obvious lies...shes a nice friend but how can i let her know thats all i want without being mean?
11 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I don't think you like the attention, you get enough of it from those two hot chicks you work with. :o)
Since she's your friend, you really don't want to hurt her feelings by saying or doing something mean. If she comes out and tells you she likes you, or asks you out tell her that you value her as a friend and you think dating would make it so you can't be friends anymore. The only reason she makes things up is so that she can look like the perfect girl to you, which is normal most people try to learn about their crush's interests so that they can break the ice and carry a convo.
Just be honest with her, but if she doesnt get it after a while you may need to make it a little clearer for her. Tell her you're too busy for a relationship and it wouldn't be fair for her, or you're not looking for anything serious. etc. worst comes to worst lie & say you have a girlfriend.
- 1 decade ago
Tell her the truth---find someone wonderful about her that a guy will appreciate. Tell her how much you appreciate her friendship because of ___ and ___ and ____, and her awesome personality. Then, tell her that you simply don't have feelings beyond it ,and you probably never will---so she needs to move on. Then offer to back outta her life for a while if that's what she needs to move out. It's respectful, and it's a positive negative, if that exists. You are appreciating hte good---3 good things for every 1 bad thing..so, 3 great things 'bout her before you let her down. But be sure that you LET her down...and don't toy w/ her emotions. Be honest about how you feel 'bout her...or don't feel..
- 1 decade ago
be straight up and tell her that you care for her as a friend that she is very nice and all but you just cant see you both going out. yes it might hurt her but it is for the best. she cant just be all over you and think you might like her back. its best if she knew because she might just end up not stop liking you if you dont tell her the longer you wait the worse it will get & break her heart. & if you dont want to do that then just simply ignore her sometimes but not all the time that will be bad
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
tell her u jus wanna b friends and u already hav a gf
thatl shut that bltch up lol
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Just be honest with her. Its going to hurt but she will eventually understand.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think ,secretly, you like the attention this girl is giving you....
- 1 decade ago
i think secretly u like this attention shes given you..
but if you don't just be honest with and tel her how you feel..
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Go ahead...destroy her dreams. What a man you are.