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i have a b!t(h 4 a sister and i need help!!!?

she's 17 going on 25. everyone isn't on her level. she disrespects my mother all the time and uses everyone. she's unbelievable... if you heard the way she speaks to my mom you'd think she was talkin 2 a dog that pooped in your fav shoes. we've fought because of her attitude towards my mom. she followed her friends and got a nose ring after my mom and dad said no. she's out of control. what should my mom do... she's also doing bad in school. HELP PLEASE

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i'm close 2 her. but when she gets an attitude I back away because I don't wanna hurt her. i'm 19 and I try 2 plan family nights and all that but no1's interested but me. omgosh I'm so stressed. she use 2 steal from me and my mum. my ma won't kick her out, she doesn't wanna feel guilty

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    This problem is YOUR PARENTS' problem.

    If your sister doesn't respect them, the people who gave her life, then how do you think she's going respect you or anybody else?

    Your parents are going to have to adjust her attitude. They've allowed her to get away with too much. Now they need to fix it.

    It's called tough love. And until they decide to use this type of love on her, there isn't much you can do.

  • 1 decade ago

    Your sister needs to learn to respect people more. Her behaviour might be because of lack-of attention. Try spending time with her as a family. You'll probably find it'll work. If not, then your mum may need to use harsher methods of punishment. It may also be because of her friends. My brother would spend hours a night talking to people he never knew. He would get angry with my parents but my mum completely stopped it all. He does better at school and respects people more. Get to know your sister more.

  • Kick her out...

    No i'm not trying to be funny... tell her to "come back with more manners" ..it really works.

    She'll fight for a while but then she'll have no where to go and then she'll understand the value of what she has and hopefully come back with more respect than ever.

    I know it might be against the social worker's opinion lol but i think its the only way to discipline her..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I have a ***** for a sister too. She is 15 and drives me mad on a daily basis. The strange thing us, that despite her annoyances, we have a really good relationship and i love her. I think girls in general are bitchy. but if her lack of respect for your mum is upsetting you, then i suggest you talk to her. Perhaps she needs some more discipline.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't bother yourself trying to control her. Be the better daughter, do well in school, console your mum if your sis is ever a B**ch to her. Then, when your older, your sis'll be livin in the streets and you'll be a successful doctor or something. Then see whos laughing :P

  • Jazz
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    the best way is to beat her a bit

  • 1 decade ago

    ground her completley, take everything away that distracts her from doing her school work. i'm not so sure. :/

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