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My fiance put our engagement & relationship on hold, so why does he still call?

I've been seeing "Will" exclusively for a little over a year now. We were engaged, and looking for a house, but then he got sick. He's on medication, and expected to be sick for a few more months at least. He has MRSA staph infection. It makes him tired and weak. He's constantly depressed, and worried, and I understand that. What I don't understand is why he's pushed me away. I'm even more confused by the fact that he still calls me up, but only when I haven't talked to him for a day or two. He told me a couple of weeks ago that he thought I was "pressuring" him, to live together. I reminded him that he went to look at houses too, and even pointed out some of the ads, and if he didn't feel ready, that he should have told me so, and not agreed to go and look. I told him I would give him time to think it over, and yet he still wants to know where I've been when I haven't called. If I call him, at least half of the time he plays games and doesn't answer.I need help...anyone?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I agree with you on that. I understand he's sick, this is when he'll need you the most. If he wanna do it like that, give him his space. If you call, just ask how he's doing and thats it. Some men kill me with that pressure ****, he popped the question and went with you to look at houses. He needs to be honest with you

  • 1 decade ago

    honey i know ur feeling bad and confused. but if u really love him and want his love and want it to have a clear and lasting relationship,id suggest u to instead of thinking of him 24hours and becoming deepest, find something u like to do and be happy even without him.don't expect him to make u happy.no,u make ur self happy and shine.and when or if he sees u happy and shining and not expecting anything from him,he will start pursuing u .i mean chasing and committing to u.so good luck and be happy OK. and remember men love to be wowed more than loved OK.

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