i dont know if to ask this girl out?

ASK HER OUT! Please take a chance on her-- it could be the best decision you make! :) Good luck--and really chances are. if she talks to you on the phone and you hang out--maybe she has feeling for you too and shes just been dying for you to ask her.

Believe me, my first boyfriend was first-most my friend...and after awhile (a year about) we became bf/gf.

So it works out.

Good luck

C.coke

This is how I see it, If you have known her for three years you probably have pretty strong feelings for her by now, and if you do think about it, do you think being with this girl, having a relationship with her is going to make you happy? If the answer is yes...then ask her out because if you don't you'll always wonder in the future what would have happened if you did and etc. Nothing should hold you back from being happy and if she says no..you really dont loose anything. So there's only one way to find out. But if you are to scared to ask her, ask her if there is a guy she likes, just friendly talk and see how she responds. If she says yes, ask her who. If you feel comfortable with her response tell her how you feel about her. If it was me, i'd totaly go for it. I had close to the same problem..I knew this guy for about seven n a half years and we were good friends..I really started liking him when I got older and I couldn't figure out of he liked me or not. I wanted to be with him and finaly I got the courage to tell him how I felt. Doing so was the best thing I did cause now we are together and im really happy.. I believe things happen for a reason so ask her whatever happens think positive and big factor is that...if she says yes...well then if you didn't ask you'd never know and never be with her. So go do it!

My friend nothing to fear ive been rejected lots of times lol but yea nothing to lose but besides talking u gotta be a lil flirty and stuff u no show u wanna be more then friends then ask her out.

Ask her out. You have nothing to lose and she might just say yes. I doubt very much that she will despise you. At the very least whether she accepts or not, she will feel flattered.

well maybe if you been friends for 3 years and yall hang out and enjoy each others company, yall probably have crushes on each other. just try and loosen her up a little bit

you should, since she ur freind and will always be. you mitte think that it wood b awkward if she said no, but yu probolly will regret it since u like her. she will neva kno in less........... YOU ask her out. but just to be safe, ask her who she likes and try to give her vibes lol you kno. so yah good luck

theres nothing to lose.....ALOT of my guy friends have asked me out i simply wasnt intersted and said i love hanging out with u and stuff but as friends....and we are still tight...lol...i fu guys r really friends and she says no then nothing will change...hope that helped

next time you're talking, say "do you think we could ever be more than friends? because i like you as more than a friend" and if she says no, just say you hope that it wasn't to awkward and you'd like to move on and forget it ever happened.

ok so you've been friends for 3 yrs right? just ask her out!!! if she says no it's not like it would ruin your friendship right?

Ask her out. Can't hurt. If she despises you if she says no, than she wasn't a good friend.