Why can't a big girl find a man?

Confidence is key to being found attractive by men. Dress for your body type and rock it out, the men will come. About the men wanting to jump into bed with you, sounds like your not hanging in the right places to meet quality men. I work with athlete's and some have girlfriends or even wives who are curvy or "full-figured," but it is clear that these men are attracted to the way their woman exudes confidence. It is obvious that some men like skinny women but personality and chemistry trumps body type. In my experience I see some of the best men in my business with curvy or bigger women because their personality and the way they rock what they have. Love your curves and they will too. Trust me I am curvy and my man is banging, and he loves my curves. Just stay patient, take my advice, and the right one will come along.

Well if you feel it is a problem then change what you can.

Most men don't find big women an attractive quality they look for in a woman.

Maybe as a king of sexual urge they may become temporally interested in,

and when they get that,

they move on,

looking for that wonderful figure they hope to one day land .

But if you give in to soon then they may never get to know who you really are and how wonderful a person you are.

So two things.

1) don't give in, let some mystery develop into an intrigue.

2) loose some weight by eating good and exercising well.

You will feel so much better,

it will show and men will become more attractive to you.

We'll...when it comes to relationships (or almost anything else in life), appearance plays a big initial role in determining whether anything is going to happen, or not. Most men will determine whether they want to get into a relationship with a woman just by looking at her (presuming that they don't know her personally). It's shallow, but it's a fact of life - they should have told us about this in school when we were little kids.

However, there are some nice/understanding men out there that might spend some time to get to know you first before determining whether they want to get into a relationship with you, or not. Those types of men are not common. But, they do exist. These are the men you want to be with.

*BTW, if you want to know why men do this, the only explanation that science has is that it's instinctual. Men were "made" to be attracted to women who have hour-glass figures or hour-glass-like figures because it determines how well a woman can bear children. Evolution has made us this way.

I guess it's just that you haven't met a guy who appreciates personality over physical appearance. Try to go out with someone as friends (or befriend a guy) first and get to know each other until both of you are so comfortable with each other and later on he will see the real beauty in you.

There are lots of fish in the sea. Im sure there is a guy out there who can appreciate big women

in the beginning, there are adult males different than Black adult males that savour a splash junk in the trunk. i grew to become into dumped as quickly as (by way of a white guy) for happening a eating regimen. My boyfriend did no longer savour the attitude that girls had while they weren't content textile with who they have been and how they regarded (aka, continually weight-reduction plan). certainly, i think of that's extra in regards to the attitude that one has approximately ones visual attraction. in case you advance up in a life-style that appreciates curves, you've a splash extra healthy attitude in case you have some (Latinas, Black females, and so on). in case you advance up in a life-style that believes that anorexia is gorgeous (Barbie dolls), you have some subject concerns once you at the instant can't realize that regular of elegance. adult males in maximum situations savour a females's determine, yet I determine (ha!) that they savour different issues approximately females besides. So %. up a super Mac, enable the thin birds to be skinny (surprisingly in the event that they are extra healthful and healthful) and savour any and all adult males that savour you for who you're, no longer for the junk you have on your trunk.

its stereotypical that a man doesnt like big women. its the ones who say they dont like big women the loudest an most boisterous that want you the baddest. an the cookin thing is almost always true. big women eat an 2 eat you have 2 cook. men always think they need a toothpick woman 2 keep them satisfied. if i wasnt in a relationship an in ATL i'd holla atcha.^_^

i think its an ego thing - showing the girl off to the mates....

if you dont like the men you are meeting try a different medium.

maybe through friends or speed dating or something...

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH US... I TOO AM A BIG WOMAN AND KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THOUGH!!!!!!!

Probably because society has them thinking that thin is in. Not only does society have men thinking that, it has women thinking it to. That is why you have so many people with eating disorders.

Believe it or not there are men who like bigger chicks!

They even prefer them.

I know it may be hard, but you've just got to find them.

My boyfriend even says he wouldn't like my body as much if I lost the chubbyness I do have.

Don't you wish us curvy girls with botty could find guys as easily as Monique does on the movie Phat Girlz?