Will he ever mature?

Ok first of all, I used to be a teacher so I know how crappy it is when you can't go out during the week. Secondly, what the heck is he doing? He sounds like he is immature and wants to have his cake and eat it too. Please tell me you don't wake up and hang out with him when he comes home. If you do, then you're just reinforcing that it's okay for him to be going out until all hours and then come home because he still gets to hang out with you. Make him a nice dinner on the weekend, then go out and party with him. After you guys get home and you're nice and "happy" have the "Where is this going conversation". Hopefully he'll open up and tell you what he's thinking. Then it's up to you to decide what you want. Good luck!

What do you receive from the relationship other than a warm body in bed (at times)? To answer your question, "no", at 32 he's probably gone about as far as he ever go toward maturity. And, if he quits going to bars because his friends don't, you'll still have an immature person on your hands.

For being 32, he does sound pretty immature. It's one thing to go out with your boys every once in awhile, but if this is a frequent thing.. then you need to start thinking about your own future.

Maybe you need to really sit him down and have that talk with him about your future. At your age, you should not be wasting time with someone who doesn't want the same things in life that you do. He isn't a kid anymore. If you want to wait around for him to grow up then that is on you.. but it sounds to me that you guys don't see eye-to-eye on important issues.

I know it's hard to talk to a guy who isn't good at opening up, but you have to think.. if these issues are affecting you NOW, how do you think they will affect you once your married?

He will but it will take a long time, because little boys want to be big boys and big boys want to be little boys. Good luck