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Should i stop trying?

Theres this gilr that im totally freakishly in love with,its horrible sometimes,but only when im not with her.

you see,we dated for a while and then all this drama with someone she hadnt met came about,but now were just like friends with benefits,but it seems like its only when she wants to be,I want her so much,and she knows this,i would have given up ages ago,but its the tiniest things like her telling me she still really likes me,and that if she were with me shed hold me,and now even though shes with someone who is hurting her and im trying to help her with that,i cant seem to ev en think straight when im thinking about her,

its so confusing,and i just dont know what to do

any ideas?

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  • Kacie
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Dont wait to long. It will only hurt more and you will develop jealousy problems, if little problems happen in the future your gonna think way to hard aobut them and turn them into something not that bad in the first place. It will happen..it happened to me. Dont let it get to you seriously. You deserve someone that is yours and ONLY yours, you shouldnt have to wait around for her to tell you to come over. You deserve better than that. But I know its hard when your in love with someone that doesnt treat you the best.

  • 1 decade ago

    lol jane doe classic!!

    but i think u should juss hang out with her make her time with u a really good time!! so she can get rid of all the negative, so she wont have to think about the other person and she will just be thinking about you and having fun!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Ur doing the rite thing to help her but it also seems like she's playing mind games with u since "were just like friends with benefits,but it seems like its only when she wants to be" sorry had to quote u that is wat tells me she''s playing mind games. so just be careful that u don't get hurt in the process of helping her with her problem. no one deserves to be hurt.

  • 1 decade ago

    tell her how you feel and i know it sounds awful but make her choose because shes hurting you and itl hurt even more if you let it go on if shes not whilling to be with you then you should end and not even really talk to her for a while but if she chooses you well then thats good

    hope i helped please try and answr mine

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnwzF...

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  • 1 decade ago

    keep trying but be wise

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