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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

i need help with a relationship plz help

I'm making this completely anonymous just in case well it doesn't matter well hers my problem i need my girl back yes I'm a girl to lets just say i had a relationship about 1 hour maybe 2 hours away from me it was long distance i don't really have anyway to get there but my girl went away for a few weeks and i was having problems their trust problems and all now wen she got back things were so different we didn't even act like a couple and i love her more than life itself i never wanted to let her go she keeps saying i mean like i love you but then again she cant she is in love with someone else who well idk its a long story so its hard how can i win her back what are some real sweet things and romantic things to say to make her fall back in love with me and also ways to act to i would relay appreciate it alot if you could help me plz hurry i don't have alota time till i talk to her again

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Wow, calm down. First of all, you can not make someone fall in love with you. C’mon, you know that. And why would you want someone that doesn’t fall over their feet to be with you. That’s like, against nature. Im really sorry, all you can really do is talk to her. And don’t sound desperate. Sound like you CAN survive without her. Then maybe she wont act all negative and see you for someone who may be worth listening to.

    Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Dear, I know she is the love of your life but if shes moved on shes moved on.You can be the nice person in the relationship, just be kind and sweet and if she comes back she comes back. don't work against what the universe wants for you, because you could end up getting hurt.Be there for her if she had a problem, but over time if shes never there for you then she don't want the relationship.i know you let her go and you didn't want to, but sometimes even how bad it hurts you can't blame this on yourself.

    The universe probably has something better for you down the road, It could be her, it could be something new.

    I you back off a little bit she might realize how much she loves you and comes back. But if she doesn't its her loss.

    Theres something better than her down the road. i know right now you feel like crying and its going to be so hard to move on.

    But you don't want to be in a relationship where your giving everything and the other person is giving nothing thats not the way life works.

    I know she must have been fantastic when you were with her but things change, you change. of course change is one of the hardest things in life to face.But we all have to go through it.If you need someone to talk to you can see a therapist or you mom or a close friend.

    My advice is to move on, but read my whole section.

    Its hard i know, But you don't have to go through it alone.

    because you can do better,

    the universe is looking out for you ,it wants your to have the best of the best. and at the first moment your happy with yourself,and stop searching for the perfect relationship, someone fabulous will come along.

    good luck!

    hope i helped!

    Lucie

  • 1 decade ago

    Your relationship was not that long and that serious for you to act like that, however distance can be a problem for some people. Maybe you should just move on, because if she wants you she will come around, just lay in the cut and see what happens... but dont hold your breathe sweetie...good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm sorry for your pain, but the bottom line is, you can't make somebody love you. It's kinda like a bird. If you hold it in your hand so tight, it will die. If you let it go... chances are it will come back to you. The best way in my humble opinion, is to tell her that you love her enough to let her go. That her happiness means more to you than your own, and thank her for all the lovely memories and wish the best for her and that she needs to know, if she ever needs you, you will always be there for her. If things don't work out for her, and she finds out you are the gem, she just may come back.

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  • 1 decade ago

    wish i could suggest something romantic or anything to her back..but the issue here is..she's in love with somebody else..unfortunately not to you..so let her go..give her space and time to explore..as the old saying about LOVE.."if she comes back..she's meant for you" and that's the only time that you should ask for any suggestions on how to keep her..

  • 1 decade ago

    bob marley has the answers to everything

  • play cool with her and-if it is meant to be it will happen good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    W H A T ?

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