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So confused! Girl problems!

So, I'm in a predicament. There are two girls who I both like. I am in no formal relationship with either, but I'm flirty with them both. I am good friends with them both. neither of them know the other exists (One of the lives out of town, I'll call her N. The other lives 2 blocks away from me, I'll call her K) I want K to be my girlfriend, but I want to stay friends (Just friends) with N. Unfortunately, K is shy and quiet, but N is completely infatuated with me. She says she doesn't have any other close friends. Each knows I like them.

That's all the information I can think of, now the question:

How do I drift away from N, while still staying her friend. I haven't known her that long, but we became friends really fast. She's already written a song about me. What should I do before she becomes completely attached to me?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    stop flirting with both of them, bcuz that means that ur sending both of them the signal that u like them. tell N that u really like her as a friend but, it cant go passed more than that bcuz she's out of town and use that kindof as ur reason for why it cant go pass the friendship , also if u feel she wont get upset than tell her that u have feelings for someone that u see more often and is close by.if she is a real friend than she SHOULD understand.but still don't end the friendship, just apart from eachother so she doesn't distract u from the girl that u can have a real relationship with , which is close by , and more realistic to having a relationship with. hope that helped. :)

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  • sara
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    The best thing would be to just tell her. It may break her heart, yes, but being straight up and honest with people is better because otherwise if you don't tell her and just leave it up to her interpreting your actions, she may get the wrong impression, which can lead to alot of confusion and perhaps even more heartbreak.

    I'd suggest doing that soon before she becomes even more infatuated with you so it's less painful for her.

    Good luck! =) xxx

  • 1 decade ago

    Be with the girl you truly care about and want to be with.

    As for "N," tell her how you feel and be honest. Don't lead her on or ignore her. She has the right to know what you feel and where you two stand.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You have to let K and N both know how you feel...You dont have to tell them about each other but let them know how you feel about them...Tell K you want to be with her...Tell N you want to stay friends...

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  • 1 decade ago

    Well just try being honest with her that there is someone you are interested in. She will hurt but appreciate your honestty & maybe your friendship will become even stronger. Good luck. :-)

  • 1 decade ago

    if she even wrote a song about u...

    "What should I do before she becomes completely attached to me?" = too late alrdy lmao

    let her down gently...

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