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I don't want to live without her.
Well she is one year older than me I like and love her since 8th class now I passed 12th I love her very much and want to marry her I prposed her firstly she said that there is someone already in her life then after 1 month she said she was lying. I prpose her daily but she not accepting me. Now she said me that I should forget her. I love hery very much and want to live with her without. If I will not get he I will die. Pls Help me how can I get her.
16 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
its not the fact of you can't live without her but the question of can she live without you? you could be scaring her. start slow. be her friend, let her see what you are about. and if it was meant then things will flow, but if not you can't say that you didn't try.
- 1 decade ago
Bud, if she won't even give you a chance at a date then you need to find somebody else. She obviously doesn't have a lot of respect for you since she wouldn't just come out and tell you that she wasn't interested. It's okay to feel like that, but at some point you've got to make a decision on what's best for you, and I'm not sure if this is your thing. Ultimately, you make your own destiny.
Good luck, man.
- sourpatchkidLv 51 decade ago
tough luck.
I hate to be blunt, but No means No and she is making it very clear to you that she's not interested. At this point, what you're doing borderlines on harassment. I assume, by this post, that you're not dating her, so if that's the case, let it go. Seriously, you're probably scaring her more than anything. That's definitely not the way to get her to love you.
I think you need a therapist. It sounds like she's the only part of your life that makes you happy and that is hugely problematic, especially if you can't have her. You need to find other things in life that you enjoy, that make it worth living.
"How can you love when you don't love yourself?"
- 1 decade ago
i understand you love this girl but on the real you need to get over her if she cares for you give her space and she'll try to talk to you after awhile if not then it's prob not meant to be but if you still find you have feelings for her after 6 months or so give her a call and see how she's doing but DON'T come on so strong with it and maybe you'll have a chance then just remember that's deff a top 5 as to scare a girl away being that clingy
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
You will never get her if you keep acting so desperate. You need to give her some space and if she is interested, she will let you know. No one is going to accept a marriage proposal that is offered on a daily basis.
- 1 decade ago
I may not have been proposed to, but I have had a guy who liked me and never gave up. This girl probably feels trapped. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings and knows how much you care about her, but marriage is serious and she knows her feelings are most important. You can propose as many times as you want, try to convince her as hard as you can, but for a girl, we know when it just doesnt feel right. I'm sorry =/
Source(s): Personal expirence - 1 decade ago
clearly you are freaking her out mate;
and don't do silly drastic stuff like propose to her daily and want to kill yourself. that is silly, you need to get help for that.
she is still young and doesn't need her life planned right now. and ould you be happy to be tied down for the rest of your life at 17?
go out and experience the world.
- 1 decade ago
why don't you write her a note about how you feel about her..let her respond..it may not always be that she is meant for you but its worth a shot..sounds like u are madly in love iwht her..do one thing
1. be there for her
2. Protect her
3. make her feel special just as much as her parents do but be like her best friend[ not to close enough for her to call you brother]
Best Regards
Source(s): things happen - 1 decade ago
you really need to get over her. you may be scaring her with all your proposals and just pushing her farther and farther away. The easiest way for you to start feeling better is talk to a therapist, or your parents.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
dude im sorry and i know how you feel cuz i loved this girl and i still really care about her but she told me that i should just forget about her. it is really hard but i am moving on and meeting new people and allthough i think about her every day life goes on. i know you really like her but find another girl that is going to feel the same way about you.