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3 months solid- so wats rong?
ummmm... i've been goin out wit this guy for about 3 months like i sed nd he's perfect. We haven't fought once, we don't scream at each other nd he's nice when we talk on the fone!He always shows me off in front of his friends but should i be worried that he's doing something behind mi back or take the fairytale as it is? (btw i live in PA and he lives in N.Y)
21 Answers
- JoeLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
well given the distance you can be a little worried...but if he introduced you to his friends i'd guess things are ok.
Keep in mind though that if his friends keep their distance and don't open up to you it's possible that they are meeting a lot of the girls he may or may not be seeing...and don't want to develop a friendship with you since it will be short lived.
- 1 decade ago
Long distance relationships are one of the toughest things you will ever go through. It takes tons and tons of trust to get through the time you have apart.
If you have good reason for thinking that he is cheating then confront him about it, don't let the wonder eat at you until you resent him for what could possibly be nothing.
Just remember, being away from each other, all you can do is talk... and that's the most important and rewarding part of your entire relationship!!
- burtongrlLv 51 decade ago
The problem is you think he's perfect. If your expectations are too high, you'll always be let down.
Also, three months at that distance means you two hardly know eachother at all. I think it takes a year, of seeing each other almost every day, to even really know someone.
But don't jinx it, enjoy a good thing while it lasts, everything has its time to shine
- Juicy SuperStarLv 41 decade ago
I say you must be young because of your spelling....
So, yes IMO he probably has other female friends at the least....
Long distance relationships tend not to work for people with money, cars and no curfew. So if you are under 20 then I doubt this will work but good luck.... If you are happy now then why worry about anything???
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
U have trust issues.
And seriously why are u asking for relationship advise from ppl on the net.
How about showing some trust and see if it is returned in full.
How about stop the worry about the "what ifs" and focus on the "what is"
Maybe with your outlook you should reexamine why your relationships have failded in the past.
And maybe, just maybe... You should try talking with your PARTNER about your issues rather then complete strangers.
- STFU_0123Lv 61 decade ago
Having a relationship long distance is hard enough as it is so unless you have reason to believe hes doing something behind your back than dont go looking for trouble. You shouldnt assume..
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
wow thats a major factor right there, Of course he is doing something if you feel suspicious or if he is giving you signs. but dont go accusing him if there is no proof in the pudding. what i would do is get some connections in new york and keep an eye on him
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well if u have a long distance relationship, there is always a chance that the other person is cheating, and u will never really be able to know!
- 1 decade ago
you have a long distance relatioship, figure that out you both have the freedom with no commitment and you wont know what hes doing at home or do you?