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I like this boy he is my boyfriend but i like someone else now how do i let him know i dont wanna be with him?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Find some other reason why you don't want to be with him rather than just because there's someone else you like better.

  • 1 decade ago

    Lets pretend your boyfriends name is Stew, this is what you say in person . . .

    Stew, the time we have spent together has been great but I just dont see this going anywhere, I think we would be better off as friends. I hope you understand and I feel bad but I want to let you know now before we get more serious. You are a great person and I wish you the best.

    Now, what if this new guy doesnt like you, are you going to wish you had stayed with "stew"? Remember, the grass is NEVER greener on the other side of the fence.

    Good Luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    well first you need to figure out if you ACTUALLY like this other guy, don't let go of a great guy, don't break a great guy's heart, make sure you actually want to make that choice of leaving him.

    now, if you've gotten to the point where you know you don't want to be with him anymore, regardless of there being another guy, you need to let him know. the sooner the better.

    frankly, it doesn't matter how you say it, its going to hurt him. when it comes to breaking a guy's heart, there is no "let down easy". so just be as nice as possible and tell him everything, he'll be alot less hurt knowing the absolute truth.

    Source(s): im a guy, heart broken many times.. =P
  • 1 decade ago

    try to be as honest as possible. you dont want to tell him the cliche' "it's not you, it's me" type of line. but tell him your feelings have changed and grown towards someone else. and although you are breaking up with him, you'd still like to be friends. never lead a man on thinking your are still with him when you are vieing for the attention of another man. good luck =]

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i am with someone n i love another... you know what i did.. i break off with my current gf even i m yet with the new girl coz i find that my heart is no longer with her n i dont want to deceive her. i just tell her i wanna break off, its kinda harsh n i really hurt her but i just cant cheat her in 'another' way so i choose to tell her striaght.... what do you think? i hope i do help in any ways...

  • 1 decade ago

    Best bet is to be honest, hun and just tell him you like someone else and break up with him...easy as pie :)

  • 1 decade ago

    tell him that you just wanna be friends and that hes a really great guy but you just dont see him like that anymore.

    hope this helped :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm afraid the answer is probably what you dont want to hear! if you dont want to be with your bf then you will have to tell him that you dont want to be with him!! there is no easy way out of this one.

    Source(s): me
  • 1 decade ago

    Just be like " Im just not feelin this relationship and I'd rather move on. I mean theres nothing you did wrong. Im just ready to start something new"...yea that sounds good.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Quick and short, you gonna help him find a new gf?

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