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Should I be worried about my boyfriend around his sisters friends?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and you would think I wouldnt have any doubts but I do. He is 22 and Im 19 his sister is 18 and she has this one friend who just turned 16 and everytime she comes over she dresses up make up does her hair and all and is always extra with everything and she sleeps over quite a bit but I confronted him about him and he got mad and said shes to young but she tan skinny like really skinny which he doesnt like but should I have anything to worry about?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    if boys are very direct

    straight to the point

    so if he doesnt like her then he doesnt like her

    you shouldnt have doubts if you really have faith in him

    you should trust him

    after all tight relationships are built through trust :D

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Trust your boyfriend unless you have reason not to. She is 16, he is 22. If he has a smart head on his shoulders, he'll realize that she is way too young and you are way too good to lose. Keep your head up, I'm sure you're just analyzing it too much. Good luck girl.

  • Clobo
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Well it sounds like you are just saying all of this from a distance, maybe you should go over his house and hang with them and see if your thoughts are true. If it's still bothering you then I would talk to him. But if it's just a looks issue, then I suggest you need to be more self-confident in yourself and know that your boyfriend loves you and only you.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    he's controlling, and u want 2 tutor her the signs and indicators that u instructed us. she can b the final one million 2 c how he's, and def the final 2 admit it. U want 2 tutor ur mom, and he or she needs 2 take some action in stoppin him. If he would not stop quickly, as much because it is going to harm her, she needs 2 understand that that's extra useful 2 spoil up w/ him. He won't dedicate suicide- he's controllin her bc he loves himself lots and is so egocentric. She may additionally want councilin- heavily. She is bein abused. Get her help as quickly as attainable.

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  • 1 decade ago

    the main key in a relationship is: TRUST & COMMUNICATION. if your boyfriend says you have nothing to worry about then you shouldn't have anything to worry about. and plus he is 22 and she is 16, he could go to jail for messing with her, do you honestly think your boyfriend wants to risk his freedom behinda 16 yr. old?

  • 1 decade ago

    im not sure. if he pays a lot of attention to her when she's around then yes it would be something to worry about but if its just "my sisters friend" then im sure you guys will be fine.

  • 1 decade ago

    without trust, there's no point of a relationship.

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