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Why Does My Love Hurt So Much

Okay guyz look. I fell in love with the most amazing person in the whole world. We started going out on 5.22.08. We hav been together for a little more than 2 months and everything between us is just splended. I love her with all my heart. Okay this is my problem. When we started going out i knew ppl were gonna say thing about us b cuz both our reputations were built up on rumors and lies that ppl made we were both prepared. Okay that didnt change anything the fact that no one in the whole world wants us to be together doesent affect me either. The thing is is that i cant even make a plan for her birthday cuz my mom iz so strict about every litte thing i do. I cant even call her any more or txt but i still do secretly but its not that much of a secret anymore cuz she knows i make it to obvious. Okay my question is is that does this kind of thing happen to ppl cuz something better is coming, Like for example my GF Loves me with all her heart and i know she does cuz the way she looks at me and the way she expreses her feelings u must b a dummy not to know. she would alway s say to experience the joy u hav to experience the pain.

And i love that she is alwayz there for me but i hate myself cuz i can never b there for her. And i love her more that anything in this world. Okay she just txt me asking me if i can go to eat dinner with her tomorow for her b day. ill ask my mom but i know for a fact she will say no..... see i just asked her she said no

wat am i supposed to do

is any of this non sense gonna lead up to something better

i now God puts obstacles in your way for a purpose

but is there any way that this can lead up to something

i mean like everything happens for a reason

Can any body give me ur opinion by the way

oh and just so you know im 14 and tommorow My baby is gonna b 15

I LOVE YOU ADRIANA!!!!

SORRY

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  • What?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    Yes I believe it does lead up to something. Bear with me, I'm gonna tell you my experience to prove a point. I'm 22 and married. I met my husband in 8th grade. We became really good friends in 9th grade and then he had to leave because his parents were missionaries. We didn't talk for a few months after he left in 10th grade, but then he looked me up on msn and emailed me. We talked for 5 years and never dated because he was soooo far away and I always had a boyfriend. I dated a really horrible person, whom I thought was my friend, but he ended up hitting me and eventually stalking me when we broke up. I was also molested by a brother in law. My husband was the one person who stood by me and protected me from them. Everyone else, including my family, seemed to just look the other way. Up until that point, he was my best friend. Going through those experiences and him having the opportunity to be there for me is what really made me fall for him. I've had some pretty horrible things happen, but all of those experiences made me who I am today. EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. You just have to wait and see what reason. Sit down and talk to your mom about your girlfriend. Ask her why she doesn't like her, maybe you can point out the good qualities Adriana has and tell her that she really makes you happy. And then ask her nicely to please give her a chance. Maybe your mom will come around once she sees how much you like this girl. After all that's over with, you should ask to go to her b-day dinner again. Maybe invite your mom so she's not so freaked out.

  • 5 years ago

    correct now, sure. final week, it was once strong. Things difference so swiftly.... love simply complicates all feelings. When you get harm, the harm is one hundred instances worse. When it is well, its one hundred instances bigger than something else. Love is an exaggeration

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