Which hurts more???? Betraying someone or being betrayed by someone???

Betraying someone hurts more. I probably cant live the fact that I had lie and betrayed someone. If someone betrayed me, I can always find a way and built everything again and live peacefully for the rest of my life.

Betraying Someone

Betraying someone makes me feel guilty.. for a while, but I'd probably talk myself into justifying what I did..lol..!! I mean, what else can I do, other than mending my ways and start treating the betrayed better to make it up to him/her..?? I'm not going to live the rest of my life feeling bad and unhappy.

I feel being betrayed hurts more..though, that too will come to pass.

Absolutely being betrayed is more painful. And if u ask the same Q to anybody who has betrayed me, i'm sure they will have the similar idea.

We might back-stab anybody every day without realizing it. That easy. And it is because it doesn't hurt us.

Me too Cactuar, ehehehe! I mean, I too would justify a betrayal I did to ease my conscience. I still believe that it depends on the extent of the betrayal though. The guilt- feelings would have its levels too.

Being betrayed by someone I love takes the cake, of course. I'll feel hurt, I'll simmer inside and I'll blow up like a volcano.

Being betrayed because it affects you physically and emotionally. You can betray someone and feel bad about doing so but I don't think the feelings will be as intense as when someone betrays you.

Being betrayed hurts but betraying someone is painfully hard to do especially the results.

being betrayed by someone or to betray somebody is as much as painful either ways.

both have the same cause and effect... it's all about breaching one's trust.

Both hurts equally. You probably can't live with yourself knowing the fact that you betrayed someone & you probably can't live with the fact that someone betrayed you.

I have only been on the receiving end and I know for sure it does not make me feel good. And for that matter, I don't do things that I dont want to be done on.