do guys approach easy looking girls more?

The question is do prefer to get honked at? Only you know the answer to that. Anyway if a guy smiles at you that's his way of letting you know he's interested. You need to check your body language at that point. Maybe it's something your doing that's letting the guy know you're unsure or unapproachable. Do you smile back when you you get a smile? Do you stand with your arms folded? You may seem too guarded by guys, too "stuffy", which can be intimidating to a guy especially if a female is very pretty. These are some things you have to ask yourself. Your body language and your eyes could be saying "don't come in" even if in your head you really want to communicate. In courtship and flirting your body language is just as important as what you say. Being pretty and considered model material is not enough.

Josephine, certainly guys are sometimes more aware of great looking girls and often figure that they don't stand a chance with them. Often though many of these guys are the nicest guys and just shy. I suppose that is why we sometimes see not so attractive people with others who we consider very attractive, they just have enough faith in themselves to approach these beautiful woman. But often guys know that you do not have the reputation of giving it up for free or very easily so they won't bother with you, not just because they think you are too good for them but also because they are only after one thing and are aware that you aren't giving what they are looking for. And a lot of fella's have dreams of getting together with a gal who sounds and looks just like you when they are ready to settle down, but not while they are out trying to sow their wild oats. Keep your morals and values as they will not do you wrong as you grow and mature. But if you decide to become one of the other girls that are getting all the guys then this reputation will follow you into adulthood etc. You will meet a nice fella and it will probably happen when you are least expecting or looking for it as it will be very natural. Believe in yourself and best of luck.

Only easy guys go for easy girls.

The guys that will approach you in the future will be good guys and you can tell. But always keep an eye for a greedy one to ;)

A lotta guys do go for the easier girls, even if they arent the best looking, mainly because tehres a reason why they appear easy. Maybe they seem extemely fun, or they warm up to everyone very easily, and thats the real reason.

I really am more interested in a guy who can make me laugh all the time and that respects me. And if he happens to be good looking then so be it. I love any type of guy, dorks,handsome, smart, silly, witty, guys. As long as they make me happy. And im not good approaching either good looking or cute, normal looking guys. I get all nervous with either one (if i like him that much). ~Zayra

Maybe you look to be to high maintenance or you look to confident.

as me personally i would only approach if i could place myself in there league if i think they maybe higher then i wont cause no one likes rejection.

so with this guy you like i think you should be the one to approach him. go straight up to him and ask him on a date cause at the end of the day its not always down to the man to make the first move.

Ok, I'm a guy and I still dont understand how you can get "easy" looking girls but here goes.

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Its very normal for boys (like me ;) to go red/blush, shy whatever when they're talking to girls that they like/care about and if your friends get then they must be (dont want to sound rude or something) slutty, chavvy people flirting at any chance they can get, do they wear a lot of makeup?

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Sorry, had to be said...

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i have the same problem and i have heard this from the horses mouth

we intimidate them

a guy never wants to have any sort of blow to his ego, he wants be in control especially if he's putting himself on the line to talk to a girl. they are more hesitant to approach a girl who carries herself confidently because they know we wont put up with their shyt and will demand respect. with those they see as "easy" they know they can get away with more and dont feel so pressured.

maybe you should try approaching them. just be nice and sincere and try to help them relax it bit.

Just turn your head the other way for some time & wait... the guy may notice your change and may approach you...

my mom was a model and i could become a model ( im a dwarf tho...5'4 but still growing!) and no guy comes up to me either. so my strategy is before class is to drop a pen by a guys desk or "accidentally" drop one during class. pass a note asking if he sees ur pen anywhere. that way u get to approach him and he has to look at you somehow. but, first make sure he's ur type...lol

i love how you totally get full of yourself in the first sentence....idk tho im the same way around girls maybe there not womanizers