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Help Me Choose What Boy To Choose !
Im in high school and I have a HUGE boy dilemma !!
Boy 1 : Soo hot , very fit !! Hes admitted loving me but he is a bit of a player . He often feels me up , its more of a pysical realtionship ! But I dont think we actually have much in common , and if we went out there wouldnt be much to talk about and it would probably be a bit awkward . I fancy him back and I have done 4 months and I think he can tell . Ive never 'got in' with any1 before but I want him 2 be my first without having to go out with him , but that would make me a slut ! He has asked me be his girl friend a number of times but I keep saying no and I dont know why .
Boy 2 : Is like my best friend and we have loads in common , theres always something to talk about! He loves me , and doesnt care about who knows , he tells every1 ! He texts me every day begging to go out with him and telling me how much he loves me leaving literally hundreds of kisses ! The only thing is it would be so awkward holding his hand and kissing him , plus he is WAY shorter than me in height ... it sounds shallow but I cant help it !
Please help me who to choose !
Mariah xx
8 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Mariah:
I have been in your shoes time and time ago and hopefully you will atleast consider my advice.
Yes, Boy one is so cute but the number one problem is that he is a "player". You should never have to stand by and wait til this boy decides what he wants to do. If he is a player now it will most likely turn into you getting your heart broken. There is nothing wrong with you thinking that he is the one for you to lose your virginity to. It does not make you a slut at all, just make sure you use protection and remember that you said that you dont want anymore than for him to take your virginity. Make that known to him before hand that way he also has a decision in that.
Boy number 2 If someone is your best friend, never cross that line and try to make it more. If it doesnt work out in the end then you have lost a best friend and it will never be like it use to be. What he feels for you is just the fact that you are of the opposite sex, you may be attractive to him but people tend to fall for or love kindness and closeness and he feels this from you.
Personally I think you should stick to your gut feeling and not be with either one of them. When you find that right guy you wont have to post ads like this to decide which you should choose!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
As you get older you will understand more and more how important it is for your (lover/boyf whatever you want to call them) to be a really good friend too. Someone you can share everything with, and someone you can talk to. Sounds like hot guy isn't that person. Also is sleeping with a hot guy worth losing your best friend over, as I am sure he would be hurt if you chose to sleep with someone else knowing how he feels about you. On the other hand if the feelings aren't there for you friend then you can't force it, that would never work either and you would end up losing him altogether.
As you are in high school you are still only young so don't go jumping into either of these relationships without thinking it through. You will ultimately make mistakes along the way, everyone does. Don't beat yourself up about that. You have a long time to find Mr right.
I hope this (whatever you decide) works out for you
Source(s): personal experience - Anonymous1 decade ago
i would choose no.1 because he sounds hottt! :L
i wouldn't try it with no.2 because you just sound so close and if i had that friendship with a guy i would never wanna spoil it!
but if going out with number 1 means hurting number 2 a big deal and putting your friendship at risk, dont do it!
xxxxxxxxxx
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Boy 1 probably- but the decision is yours and you should pick the one you like.
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- ?Lv 45 years ago
truthfully Nicholas. It suits in acceptable with the different names. So i might for specific %. that call. and that i admire the call liliane yet I did have a tricky time seeing what it pronounced. perhaps you need to spell it Lillian. yet while youre going for a different way of spelling then yours is excellent. i think of they had undertaking-loose spelled names interior the 50's so perhaps basically for the story line you need to apply Lillian. good luck!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
honestly its up to you to decide
looks aren't everything x