what would attract a girl the most?

Flirting and hanging around is so that YOU don't loose interest in her. SHE never had any in you. If with some bright trick you make her interested, it will fizzle down soon and you will be left on the curb.

Well everyone gets used once in a while. No big deal.

Find out a nice girl or try harder to find one. The process will either lead you to a girl you deserve or will reveal her true self.

If you tend to fall into the "friend zone", this is especially important. Girls don't like guys who have no lives, and who cling to them like plastic wrap. :) lol. Here are nine Easy Steps To get her to like you more. Then, she will always act like she likes you.. because she does!

1. Have Your Own Life.. don't be a stalker or hang around her too much.

2.Make an impression.. some girls like things which others dont.. all girls are different. so be yourself!

3.Flirt. When you see or meet the girl you like, make brief eye contact. Smile. Strike up a casual conversation. Most importantly, relax. Don't think of her as the girl of your dreams; don't worry about what will happen if you make a bad joke, or you've got something stuck to your teeth. Just live the Moment.

4.Talk to her. Tell her what you really enjoy in life. Ask her what she really loves in life and what gets her excited. Be positive. If you have had a bad day, still greet them with pleasure and a big smile. Most importantly, listen. Girls talk.. A LOT So be sure to listen and pay attention!

5.Be romantic.. Kinda. Dont be too pushy. On Holidays give her a box of chocolate or some flowers. Just be casual about it.

6.Break the touch barrier. There are several ways to touch a girl without being umm.. creepy. Hold her coat while she puts it on. Offer her your hand when she's stepping on an uneven surface. Hold out your elbow so she can link arms with you as you walk together. Hold out your hand so you can lead her through a crowd. Rub her hands when they're cold. These are all polite ways to get a little closer without being creepy. Still, if you see any signs of discomfort, stop! Otherwise, she'll probably enjoy the affection.

7.Compliment her. If you really like this girl, you probably appreciate a lot of things about her. Why not let her know? If anything is different or new (her hairstyle, nail polish color, shirt), make note of it. The more unique the compliment, the better received it will be, unless she's shallow. Most girls like being complimented on something that makes them distinct, not something that plenty of other girls have. If you compliment her appearance, try to be original.

8.Make her laugh.. make funny jokes. Not ones only.. guys will like. Try something funny about celebritys or the olympics right now :). If your not that umm how do i say this?.. funny. then tell her to dare you to do something then do it! (unless its illegal of course.)

Ask her out. Invite her to go somewhere or do something with you.. like see a movie! or go to a resteraunt with some friends, but sit next to her. Just be sure its fun! Hope this helped.

Maybe she just doesn't like you like that. I do the same thing and its not fair to the guy I will agree... but I'm a really flirty person. I like to flirt even if I dont really "like" the guy, and if I see that he's taking it wrong then I stop.

Maybe you could try telling her how you feel, or maybe ask her subtly what she thinks of you.

But definitley be there for her now, especially if she is heart broken. Show her how you care by listening and not trying to push her into another relationship right away. You'll be fine. Good luck.

there's two ways to go:

1) whether she is afraid to start another relationship that may have a bad ending like the past one

or

2) she doesn't really like you. You are just her "astronaut food" (meaning she feels a little insecure so she likes to know that she can flirt with somebody and have a reaction to it.It is always good to know somebody likes you)

I advice you talk to her and tell her how you feel if you really want something nice and real with her. Otherwise, if you just want to test her, don't act like you are into her so much...and see what her reaction is like and what she'll do this time.

Sometimes it's better to stay friends and play that game of 'tease and deny'. Once the 'thrill' is gone to see if it *can* happen, think to yourslef if it would be so 'exciting' anymore. You wouldn't want to lose a great friend over going past what the relationship currently is, would you? And if you were both planning to hook up, don't you think that it might have already happened? So maybe that's as far as it *should* get, friends who flirt?

Yes, be her friend. She may or may not want you. Woman are hard to figure out, I would suggest you not try. Be yourself. Something has kept her around you right? If you can, muster up the courage to ask her out. Or at least tell her that you like her. You should know then how she feels. Good luck.

That's because she just looks at you like a friend, so it is very hard to get past that. I can't really give you any tips except to just be a friend and don't try anything more unless she does.

I have seen that movie over and over. She just wants to be friendly with you, and have you as a backup, lets say male companion when everything goes wrong. But she is not interested in you, period.

Well it is very possible she does like you but is just playing hard to get! Unfortunately, there isn't much you can do. Just tell her how you feel and see how she reacts. :)

ask her outright! simple as that if u dont she will be wondering why ur not actually doing summit about it she may just have mixed signals from u