Im having friendship trouble! Please help, this is really important!

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Okay, so my best friend and I have been friends since we were about 3 years old. We've always been best friends, but we've never had a bump in our friendship as big as this one. So, she's dating one of the most, annoying, stuck up, big mouthed, big loser in the whole school, but she doesn't think that he's those things. I used to be really good friends with him, but he always picks on me because he "thinks it's fun!" Anyway, so We haven't really gotten along that well, ever, and now, not only doesn't he annoy the hell outta me, but he's taking over my best friend. Okay, now onto the real problem: My best friend completely adores him. She thinks he's everything she could ever ask for. When really, he's mean to me (her best friend), he acts all stuck up, and he thinks he's the most amazing guy and every girl wants him, when really, THEY DON'T! I keep trying to tell her that he's not good for you, and will end up costing you a lot of friends, but she doesn't listen. I try and be supportive about their relationship, but it's hard because he's so mean to me all the time. I've tried everything to tell her that he's no good (because he's really not), and that he treat your friends like s*** (excuse my language), but she DOES NOT listen. I've seen her go through guys like she goes through tissues. It's really depressing, and hard to deal with. I really need help on what to do so I don't get frustrated and end up ending my friendship with her over a guy. But I'm at my last end! Please help me! This is really important!

Peter 123 · Accepted Answer

if there is just a friendship between you and her... so why do you care if she is in a relationship with him... ! if you want more than friendship with her then go and tell her !

Joan · Answer

First...take a deep breath and focus.
The best friend you care about is making a mistake. She is sacrificing her friends for a guy that is actually a fraud. You want to protect your friend from this guy, but she doesn't listen because she fell for him. 
There is nothing that can break love..and your friend is in love. But that doesn't mean you odn't need the other things. You know it's not going to work out, you know she is going to get hurt. If she refuses and doesn't acknowledges what you are saying...then it's a shame. 
She will get hurt..and when she does, you need to be that support. Okay? She doesn't believe what you are saying..but you have to because she's your best friend. Don't let her hurt by herself. I know it's hard, but just watch them. Eventually your friend will ask you for help, and then she will understand the truth you were speaking the whole time. Be patient and wait until she calls out for you. Best friends are hard to meet...don't lose her too easily.

Olivia B · Answer

Print out this question that you just asked us. And give it to her to read. Or you could tell her that he is extremely annoying and rude and mean. And tell her that as long as she is with him, or as long as she doesn't listen to you, then you won't hang around her. 
Or you could just wait out the relationship. It sounds like it wont go very far....

Anonymous · Answer

Try to separate yourself from her love life if it's causing you so much  pain and avoid the guy. She'll realize what an asshole he truly is, but excuse me for saying that but it sound to me that she's just like him if she goes thru men like  tissues.

→denise:) · Answer

If she's dating a jerk like him...
They'll eventually break up.
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Make sure you're there for your friend when they do though.
I can't think of any good advice right now.
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So sorry.
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