I'm pretty sure my boyfriend's cheating on me...what should I do?!? Help PLEASE!!!!?

you're just pretty sure..

find more evidences that will make you really really sure..

but of course your heart will avoid the subject because you like him a lot..

but it's better to leave him if you know he's cheating on you..

The scars of this relationship will be going on for a long time if you let him cheat on you..

My close friend had an experience like that and she regret that she was not the one who broke up with her boyfriend..

Even if she does already know that he's kinda cheating on her..

And up until now, she's still hurt..

Dump him. If he has sent texts to another girl saying stuff like, "I love you," or calling her "babe" then he must be cheating on you. How else can you explain it? He is your first boyfriend. You will have others. You don't want to look back on this later and remember that when you had your first boyfriend he cheated on you and you stayed with him. You deserve better and there are better guys out there. There are guys out there who would never cheat on you. There are guys out there who will show you respect and love you. This guy is not one of them. If he respected you and cared about you, he wouldn't be doing this. Confront him. Be adult about it. Just tell him what you know and tell him it's over and that's final. Do not fall for it when he lies and says it is nothing or fake cries or says he is so sorry and it will never happen again. It will. If he is ok with cheating on you now, he will feel ok with doing it again later. Move on. You are better than this. You don't have time for this.

Well i think that u should ask him about it. That doesn't guarantee that he will tell u the truth, however, just listen to it. Always remember that you don't have to go looking for things they will always eventually come to you without u having to do anything about it. This is a sure shot for you to not be the blame for being insecure or snooping, which can kinda confuse you on decision making. And also remember that there are going to be more guys that you will like in the future better than him that won't have text messages to other girls. So don't fret my pet. You're going to be okay with or without him.

ok well 1st off he will get defensive cos u went through his phone.

but thats no excuse for what hes doing.

all though he may not be actually cheating on u ( i mean kissing or sleeping with this girl) the kinda txts hes sending are bad enough!!

dont confront him in an angry way just ask him who this girl is... wait for his response then tell him what u found.. ask him how he wud feel if he found the same thing on ur phone!

First off, DON"T invade his privacy like that, cause if he wasn't cheating before he might be thinking some one else might treat him better now! Second, if you really feel he's cheating, call him on it.If he says yes get him the hell out of your life! You don't need that, no one does! Buck up!:}

He is definitely cheating, so no worries on if you are falsely accusing him or not. You have to end it with this guy and see him for who he really is - a liar and a cheat. Let the other chick have him.

Okayyy here is what yuu do,

flirt with another guy at the mall ; then when he gets jealous, say "what have you never flirted with other girls, during our relationship?" and then say "lemme' see your phone" and that's when you look at the texts and start crying, if he's cheating he'll start stuttering or something, if he's not he'll try to comfort you and explain his reasoning.

hope it worxx out [[:

Well...you need to be straight up with him. Tell him about the texts. Sounds to be like he's cheating.

he is cheating on you. im sorry btw. but you need to break up with him you deserve so much better than a guy how has someone else and you.

YOU HAVE EVIDENCE!!! he is totally cheating on you girl!! face the facts confront him on it or catch him in a lie. you shouldnt be afraid let him kno whats up and give him a piece of your mind!!

Peace be with you~