My boyfriend & porn.. Idk what to do?

in some case, you have also your mistakes in your relationship. but your boyfriend must understand the situation why you did such, i know you have the good reason for doing that and that you should tell your boyfriend. In a relationship there's really no perfect, you'll be having your ups and downs and committing mistakes, but you'll get over it if both of you do really love one another.

With regards to your boyfriend watching porn, i don't see the good thing about about it or even using it as a form of revenge from what you did to him before. For men, that's practically part of their like growing up, but for watching such pornographic materials over and over, that's immoral. Cause its practically and morally wrong, against the norms of the society. Its actually exploitation of women.

You have to tell your boyfriend to stop doing so. If your boyfriend really loves you, he will listen. If not there's actually a big problem, it just mean that he might not respect you as a women per se. Same as he don't give any respect with the women he's watching in the porn video.

Hope this help you with your bf problem.. Good luck with your relationship...

There IS something wrong with porn. It is mainly male orientated and the scenarios treat women as sex objects. Its presentations are crude and stress the manipulation of the female for the pleasure of the male. The difficulty will arise if your bf thinks that that is the way relationships should operate. There is nothing in porn of the enduring and valuable features of human relationships. Those who watch it are generally immature and sometimes incapable of maintaining a human relationship at its highest and most satisfying level. Perhaps your bf watches porn because he is incapable of having sex at more than the crudest level.

Frankly, I should dump him. Tell him that you do not find such behaviour appropriate in a mature person, since it emphasizes exploitation and devalues females.

If he can't see this, then tell him to take a walk.

Men always say it's okay that they watch porn. (Like Sam)

When it comes right down to it though, if he really loves and respects you and knows it bothers you, then he won't do it.

Men don't NEED porn, it's not like air or water. If you don't want your boyfriend looking at it, then find a boyfriend that won't.

It's not insecurity, it really just hurts, I know.

Oh, and if he's trying to get revenge on you, there might be a greater issue at hand.

There is nothing wrong with porn, it's not cheating because almost all lads do it single or in a relationship.

Just some males like 'alone time', if you know what I mean and porn does help :).

I know it seems rather stupid for a male to be answering this anyway. I bet you think this what all the lads where going to right. Lol.

dump him