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There is no fast way out of it. It is a long process. You don't say how long you were married. But the longer you were married, the longer it takes to get over. I personally tell you that you don't get over, you just get used to the situation. You will always have your moments. It will help a lot if you get a life as soon as possible (learn something new, take dancing classes, volunteer somewhere, get a makeover, make new friends, etc) Improve yourself, take time to look inside you and make an assessment of any changes you need to do. Life is about growing spiritually, and ending a relationship is one of the biggest lessons. remember that some people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Take life second by second, ride with the waves, it shouldn't take more than two year. Like I said before you won't get over, but it should stop hurting after that. A word of advice "don't rush into another relationship", give yourself time to heal and to absorb the lesson.