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Mature Women Only plz. serious question....?

So, i have been engaged for about three months now and my fiance and i are planning to marry in june of next year. This november, i am going with my mom and sis to Mexico to see my grandpa cuz ive never met him before and he says he wants to give me his blessing. Anyway, my fiance and i dont live together yet, cuz were kind of short on money. But we dont want to move in after we marry cuz what if things dont work out right? So heres my question. Since were short on money, should we delay the wedding because of my trip to Mexico or move in right after i get back from Mexico and see where that takes us/? What if were out of money by the time our wedding date comes? idk what to do. I need advice. no mean comments plz.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    What I would do is hold back the wedding and start saving more. You need to do what you think will make you happy and not whats best for you. If it makes you happy to move in with him then do it. I'm sure things will go through smoothly.

  • 5 years ago

    Could be tricky. I'm 45. Having grown up in the '70s in the aftermath of 'free love', and all- Many single women my age have grown tired of men who want "the milk without the cow". Too often, a man who says he just wants a friend means he just wants sex without committment. Makes a woman wary of being "friends" with a man. Not that I don't have men friends, but a man I don't know well who says he's just looking for a friend usually means a 'f***- buddy'. You might do OK, or you might want to start as 'pen-pals'.

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