dating advice: ladies, your input is greatly appreciated.?

You have to figure out Why you're afraid to get too close to a woman. It could be that maybe something bad happened to you in the past. If something really bad happened in the past and you don't want to be afraid to get too close to a woman, maybe you can get counseling.

I was sexually molested by my brother when I was a little girl. That in itself is traumatizing enough. It has prevented me from finding love in the past but I got over it. All I'm saying is, if something bad happened to you and you want to be able to have a real relationship, get help.

MANY people back away from potential good relationships because of fear. go for it. learn from it and know ahead of time not to feel too low if it doesnt happen. if you give it a real shot, maybe it will work out. right from the start tho be YOURSELF and you should know quicker if someone will be a good match for you or not. good luck

i say when you find someone you want to date, and you actually go out on a date, open up to her, talk to her about stuff you normally wouldn't tell others especially your guy friends, and if its going to evolve into something serious you think tell her that if either one of us for some reason want to end this relationship that you guys can still be really really good friends.

I know exactly what you mean.See sometime you have to let your guaeds down and you never that she might be the one for you.But at the same time also got to keep them up too.

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