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How to come out to Christian parents ??

My best friend is bi and is currently dating a nice girl. She wants to come out to her parents but runs the risk of being disowned, kicked out, and totally ruining her relationship with her by-the-book hardcore Christian and thus homophobic parents. She's only 15, so what should she do??

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    i dont really see any reason for her to just come out and tell her mom and dad she is Bi. i mean if she was str8 and only liked boys would she sit her mom and dad down and say ..mom...Dad...im straight..and im in love with a boy,,?..No she would not.

    I say she should just keep it to herself IN LESS her mom or dad or someone else comes right out and Asks her if she is gay or bi or str8. Then she should tell the truth,

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Totally agree with Ricky V., focussing on something else would probably be the right thing to do.

    Listem Mr NSX, if you don't like gays/lesbians what are you doing here ??? Are you looking for advice about coming out too ??? It looks like it !!

    Sometimes straight guys are frustrated and angry because they don't know what to do...and i bet you're a bottom too...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She should tell them she decided to to be atheist too and doesn't believe in Jesus or God anymore. They'll focus more on that than the her being bi.

  • 1 decade ago

    shes only 15, does she really know what she wants.

    i'd say dont come out yet, it could do more harm than good!!

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  • Hermes
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I suggest that she remain discreet -- you know, they don' t need to if they are bigots, hiding their bigotry behind the face of their religion.

    Kind thoughts,

    Hermes

  • 1 decade ago

    mum dad i might let u a bit down pn this i one but im still me and i have to let someone know and i wish you could support me and my lifestyle... i ahve to let you know i'm gay...

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