Can you live the rest of your life with a person who has cheated on you????

I thought I could... until I realise I couldn't trust the same person anymore, to a stage I started questioning everything. It was such hard work and I would never even attempt anymore. On hindsight, I am still struggling to forgive the same person

Same with Yaya, depends on the extent of the cheating. We could live with little cheating every now and then. But I suppose you mean the big time cheating like having another woman aside from me. No, I don't think so. I have too much pride to forgive and forget. But i don't say never. Never is such a permanent word and nothing is ever permanent in this life.

hmm, tough question,

i would say no,, because there is no excuse to cheat on someone,

If ur not happy with your spouse, you should be brave enough to discuss the issue and find a solution,, if it still doesnt work, then you should use the freedom to choose, break up with the person and you can do whatever you want without betraying or harming or others.

We can choose to do, or be with anyone we want,, but it should be done the right way,, cheating is just,, not cool.

'you' was meant in general,,

Depends on the EXTENT of the cheat, but if you mean cheat in the sense of relationship matters well.. quire hard to accept.

But if it is cheat with a good intention, why not just forgive with the mutaul faith that it will not happen again..

" LOVING is FORGIVING " Good Luck & Best Wishes !!

you have indexed the main factors like a criminal rap sheet. you're actually not any way waiting to attempt forgiving this guy. And after analyzing what he definitely did, I wouldnt even attempt if I have been you. I have not got any concept, while he's so into yet another female, that he has even stricken to attempt and save you. until he purely cant stand the belief-approximately what he will lose in the divorce. He has no longer taken care of the affair like a mistake, purely the getting caught section. you understand he will proceed it as quickly as he feels secure sufficient to accomplish that. you have no marriage left, so the only way you are able to "stay with" him is to have a separate domicile and not care that he's with yet another female in his thoughts and his movements. he remains your newborn's Dad yet you dont would desire to take to any extent further of his abuse betrayal and rejection.

Yes - then I can cheat that person the rest of her/his life....

No! A big NO!

Living in doubt, thinking he might doing it again,

or still having a feeling towards her....

Urghh..what a mental torture!

I rather live alone on my own and be calm and happy.

I will avoid stress at any cost.

Yes, I can.

Provided we have mutual priority; kids.

And if we have enough respect left for each other, civilised with each other, not too repelled to sleep in the same bed and are still friends.

I can. depends on what kind of cheat is that. we do cheat each other but doesn't mean we don't love each other. it's not about 'living in a lie' but..hey...be realistic.....who doesn't cheat? love conquers everything...

It'll takes time to forgive but I will eventually.. But I will never trust that person anymore.