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anyone else giving up on relationships?
has anyone been so affected by a previous relationship that they just gave up on them altogether? i know i am! i was cheated on twice the last time. relationships cause too much stress and drama!
21 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Hell yeah girl you just gotta go wit da flow and when the right guy comes along let him in, but only if u know he be for REAL, otherwise send 'em packin. You dont needa waste yo time on guys who aint gon treat u like the queen dat u are. I recommend u this video
Source(s): i feel u gurl i feel u - 1 decade ago
I've given up on relationships. It's been a long time. I don't care for the drama and I can't stand the fact that men only see women as objects and leave when they don't get what they want. Disgusting! I've been better off alone, although I do have idiots around who still think I'm trying to hook up with people. That's where my stress comes from, which sucks!
It's more fun to be alone, though. You do what you want and you don't have to feel the need to call and ask if you can go without the other person. Personally, I think being single is like being in heaven. Perfect!
- MegafunkLv 61 decade ago
I did before, after a traumatic break up. Went off guys for 2 years. Been with my current boyfriend for 2 years and am not even sure hes the one. Seriously considering doing what you're gonna do and give up altogether. More hassle than they're worth I reckon!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I've been through hell and back too sweetie.. The guy I dated in Feb. this year used to beat me (when he was drunk), then tried to kill me..
All the ones before that weren't even serious, they just used me for sex, and told other girls they were still single..
One even made a facebook group about me being a huge slut (even though at the time, he was the only guy I'd ever slept with and I was 19).
Guys can be absolutely cruel, its true. But if you give up, you could be missing out on something good.
Don't give up, just stop looking! Concentrate on your own life, and if you're not concerned with finding someone, they'll seem to fall on your lap, and you can be selective in deciding which one is good enough for you.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
i'm done with relationships for now... same story here, i got cheated on by my fiancee and then dated a guy and found out the jerk was married!
that special someone will come one day, but this is how i think about it. when that special someone comes along, i wanna be prepared. ever hear the saying "you can't truly love someone until you truly love yourself"? that's why i'm taking this time to work on me and the person i am. guys are on the backburner until all my goals are reached. so take this time and figure out your goals and achieve them. there's no better time than now!
- 1 decade ago
Why the drama? Been in a relationship doesn’t mean that I'm the owner of my partner, we are humans here, sex is one thing and love is other thing. Get my point?
- swelwynemmaLv 71 decade ago
Yes, I may as well do... although I'm currentl;y in one and neither of us is the cheating type!
It just doesn't feel remotely like what it used to be back in the day.... 4 years ago
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Amen I've been cheated on twice in my last 2 relationships im done for now :)
- 1 decade ago
ye ive bn affected by ma relationship buh i wasnt at a point of giving up on the love i had .. buh yea yur ryt its tuu much stress and full of dramazz
- 1 decade ago
Don't go looking when the right person comes along you will know. Enjoy the single life and spend time with family and friends.