my bf doesnt talk bout me to family and friends?

Hi Yo99,

It seems kind of strange don't you think!!! Is there really a good reason for him not letting family and friends know that you 2 are a couple now? Why not ask him why he is afraid to let people know you are together as a couple My Friend. I know i would sure what to know why.

Your Friend,

poppy1

I think you may want to be realistic about this relationship. For 2 years you were friends and he didn't talk about you then? That is hard for me to believe. I think he may think of you more as an acquaintance and not a good friend. As for the dating for 4 months...it may be a "friends with benefits" situation. I don't think he takes you seriously at all or feels the same way you do. You need to talk to him about your relationship and why he doesn't talk about you to his family and friends, See what he says. Personally, I wouldn't waste another moment of time on this guy. He doesn't sound like a friend or even a boyfriend to me.

Yeah its true! time to get worried bout him, a lonely man must not stand alone, its your chances to asked bout his personal life time to get involve his world. You must learn how to handle that kind of person maybe his a lot of hindrances for growing up. Be careful to make conversation to him feel his presence so that you can make it. Good Luck.

Well, if I had a boyfriend, I wouldn't talk to about him to my parents. It's just weird and my parents and I don't have that kind of realtionship. I would tell my siblings and close friends. But I wouldn't take it personally. Maybe he's just uncomfortable. Whats important is that he likes you.

I wouldn't really take it too personally, because I'm sort of the same way. I just like to keep my personal life private and I'm not really that open about it. I mean no disrespect to who I'm dating and all, it's sort of just who I am. You could try talking to him about it though and see what happens.

I would, my cousin is the same way. He won't introduce a girl he is dating to his family unless she's actually worth being introduced and someone he takes serious.

maybe hes just that type of person, i dont really tell my parents any of my buisness, but thats mostly because they liketo talk sh*t about me to the rest of the family....