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would you date someone.....?

I was wondering if you would date a person with kids....

I am a single mother of 2 wonderful kids. I have been single for 8 months now. My ex wants me back which I don't want him back. And the other day he told me that I wouldn't find another man because I have kids already and that the only man for me is him.

And I was wondering if you would date a women with kids already...

This is for girls or boys....

Update:

Okay, I'll give you the reason why I am not with my ex. My ex is such an ***.

He treated me with no respected. He called me names and even hit me a couple of times. He never bought anything for the kids. His partying and drinking were more inportant then his kids. We fought all the time and he hit me and gave me a black eye. So, I threw him out. And he called me the other day asking if I would take him back and when I told him no. Thats when he told me that I wouldn't find anyone else because of the kids. And that he is the only person that would want me.

So, now do you understand why I don't want him back.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Well, depending on how old you are and how old your kids are.. a teenage guy/any guy really, isn't going to want to take care of kids who aren't his own. go to the grocery store and pick up some guys :]

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think having kids will interupt relationships with other men. If they really love you - they will not worry about your background but who you are inside. I think that having kids is great - when you get with a man - you don't have to have kids straight away to feel like a family. You will already have a family. Also, you won't get stressed about having to take care of your children alone (not saying you do!) but will have a companion to help. I think being a family requiers children - not saying it has to - but I think you do more social things together. I hope this has helped. And by the way, don't listen to your ex - he is trying to make you feel depressed when your not with him. Your fine (right?) so just ignore him.

    Who did you have kids with? You sound like a great Mum!

    disneylover1

    xxx

  • 1 decade ago

    im sure someone would date you knowing that you have children

    no im positive

    your ex is just mad i guess cuz he wants you but you dont want him

    so hes saying stuff like that to make you feel like you wont get anyone else and hes your only choice which is really wrong

    me personally i wouldnt date a guy with kids but then again im only 17

    im gonna guess that your in your twenties or thirties so of course your situation is gonna be different than mine

    but like i said before

    im positive you will find someone who accepts you and your children and if you come across a guy who doesnt, he dont deserve you and you should just move on

    if all else fails and you cant find anybody at least you will still have your children to love and that should make you very happy

    but love comes when you least expect it

    keep that in mind

    hope i helped at least a lil bit

  • 1 decade ago

    don't listen to him there are plenty of men out there that don't care if you have kids your ex is just being a jerk and wants you to take him back

    so go ahead shop around and find yourself someone that deserves you

    and your wonderful children

    Mandy

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  • 1 decade ago

    Wow.

    your ex is a jerk to say that.

    If my current boyfriend had kids, that wouldn't stop me from loving him the way I do. If someone truly likes you, then they'll embrace you and your kids! Don't worry, you will find someone that loves you!

    G'luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    As long as I liked the person and their kids I wouldn't care too much.

  • 1 decade ago

    I was divorced and had 3 kids and had not trouble finding dates or remarrying

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I love to be your friend if you do not consider my age.

    I am 60 years young man, widower, lonely, so on and so forth.

    I am praying to that unseen God to favour a friend in these agonizing days of mine.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No, I wouldn't date a woman with kids.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yea why not ?

    There just as much of a person as anybody with out kids

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