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For Muslims only, is it fair for a man to chat online with women when he has a wife at home?

If a Muslim man and a muslim woman are married, is it against Islam for a man to be online for 7 hours + a day and ignore his wife? is is against Islam for the husband to only be searching for women online and causing his wife to not be allowed to talk because he is on the webcam?

Update:

To the man who said get him offline, how am I supposed to do that when he will not hear me?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Yes i would find it very strange if he is only seeking out women to talk to and not letting you talk saying he is on the webcam. Why does he have to talk for so long, 7 hours that is alot, and when he has a wife, he is ignoring, then he is certainly going wrong by Islam.

    just a suggestion but if you repost this in the ramadan section under holidays, society & culture bit, u will get more response.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    First, I am not a muslim woman...However, I am a woman all the same that has been married 13 years. You don't have to be a muslim woman to figure this one out. The answer is no it is not alright...A man should hold his wife dear to his heart and not look and talk to other women for his own selfish needs and ways...That is a form of mental cheating at it's best. It doesn't matter if you follow the Bible or Muslim beliefs to figure that one out. Get a backbone! Good luck!

  • yes thats not normal. I think he is addicted and obsessed with chatting online. Get him off the computer as soon as possible.

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    You have to show some emotions. Sho him that what he does really hurts u. If u have already done that and this has been going on for a while then give him the cold shoulder. Dont make meals for him. Refuse to share your bed with him. Go to your moms house so that he realizes how much he needs u.

    But sister, these are just some advices. Please asses your situation yourself and then c if u can take my advice. I dont want to say something that will cause a dispute b.w the 2 of u. So be careful

    Salam-alaikum

    ramadan mubarak

  • 1 decade ago

    i think he is flustrated .yuo should give him more care and lil bit give him want he wants in every sense .............its totally worng that he is chating with women if he is married ..........its not allowed in islam , yes u can chat for a while to give suggestion to osmeone needy and dats it ...not more then dat!!!

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