Please Help I NEED Answers....?

Hey girl,

Here is what I say, try your best to work it out, look him right in the eyes and tell him you need to talk to him. He might get angry but try to use your smile to calm him down. I understand the clingy thing, my girlfriend is the same way. THATS NOT A BAD THING! It just shows that you care, but don't worry yourself sick over it, my girlfriend is 17 years old and she has an ulcer from worrying about aspects of our relationship.

I know you wouldn't leave him, but after your talk, judge how you feel. Does this guy make you feel good or bad about yourself and the direction your life is taking after this conversation? The way you feel after the conversation is the deciding factor in the relationships health. Just don't cry, we guys stop listening to everything girls say and start to feel kind of bad. so we just try to make you stop crying. Unless he enjoys it. Then you don't need to be with him anyway.

Hope this helps,

~Rocky

You're clingy, he's angry. Hmmm. Well, try this: promise that just for one day, you will not be clingy or needy. Just today. See how it goes. If he's not angry, then he sounds like a good guy. If he's still angry, then he's angry over things that happened before. If so, you can take a few more days of not being clingy and needy and see if he can change. If he can't, then break up and see other people, because to be angry all the time isn't healthy for either of you.

I once heard that love is a battle field. Not all relationships are perfect, they all have at least one flaw. Maybe you guys need to talk to each other about it and ask each other what both of you need to work on. I mean come on, 2 years. Of course you wouldn't throw all that hard work away. I hope better days come for the both of you =]

you seemed young yes? hm.. well this situation happen very often with youth or young adult relationships and guys tend to act that way becasue they don't know what they want and so do you... you think you are in love right now but ask yourself is it really love? if so then why are you hurting inside? it takes time ALOT of times and commitment to each other and you two need to be humble with each other and if he don't treat you right then you gotta move on! he can do it once he can do it twice... you'll never how much something is worth until you lose it, despite of its worth...

find a hobby or a sport something that makes you happy n enjoy. so that you have something else besides your bf hopefully you will be less clingy.