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Would u tell your sister if her bf did this to you?

I don't know what to do. I was at my sisters house last weekend and I slept on the couch and at 3 in the morning i woke up to see her boyfriend in the livingroom watching tv and I started watching with him but he was drunk and we were joking around and i was falling asleep off and on so the next thing i saw he sitting next to me on the floor while i was lying on the couch and i felt the covers moving and his hand moving up my thigh it freaked the heck out of me cause ive known him forever like a big brother and he has never done anything like that before so when my sister came in i didnt say anything cause i know how much she loves him and i didn't want her to blame me for him wanting to do that to me so was i wrong to leave it alone? plus i really like him as a person and dont want to be the reason they break up

Update:

he has cheated on her before and she stayed with him plus im a person who doesnt like confrontation im really quiet and cant stand yelling or a person crying

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  • mJc
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    What the heck?? Did you tell him to get his hands off of you? I hope so! Being drunk is absolutely NO EXCUSE for him trying to feel you up. This must be a huge disappointment to you. Well... all you can do at this point is to make sure that you are NEVER alone with him again. And if he ever tries this crap again go directly to your sister and let her know that her boyfriend is a complete idiot!

  • Tell her!

    How would you feel if they eventually got married, had kids, then divorced after she catches him cheating (or trying to cheat)?

    Your sister would have wasted years of her life with him, and the kids would be thrown into the mess as well. Not to mention the STD thing that Kristen brought up.

    Would you feel guilty? I don't think it matters if he was drunk or not. If he cheats now, it's likely he'll do it later too.

    It is up to you to decide if your sister would want to know. I know I would want to know.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    thats a hard one. it might help to tell your sister. i mean just let her know what happend cuz it will be a relief to get it off your chest too. just tell her that it might mean something or he might have just been out of it cuz he was drunk and hadnt meant to do anything wrong. i think that if it is making u go crazy holding it in then you shouldnt. she probably wouldnt blame u either cuz you werent the one that did anything wrong. good luck hope this helps :)

  • 1 decade ago

    well if u trust that he is really a good person and he only did this because he was very drunk then i guess u shouldnt say anything. BUT if he wasnt that drunk and knew what he was doing then u better tell her

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  • 1 decade ago

    Honesty is the best thing u can give somebody. U should tell ur sis wut happened 'n explain that he was extremely drunk 'n u don't want her to leave him because he wasn't wit it 'n would have never done it if he were sober. If ur not honest wit ur sis it'll eat u up 'n eventually someday u'll let her know but it'll tick her off that u didn't tell her straight up. Something similar happened to me a couple months ago.. my "best friend" accused my fiance of cheatin' on me, she didn't tell me like a good friend is supposed to, she waited 'n started a fight wit me than told me.. I knew she lied because somebody who truely cares 'bout u will straight up tell u. Tell ur sis.. don't worry 'bout their relationship, worry 'bout u 'n hers.

  • 1 decade ago

    no you have to tell her because what if he cheats on her with some nasty girl and then your sister gets an STD? that would suck. if he is going to do nasty things like that your sister needs to know!

  • 1 decade ago

    GIRL that is wrong of him tell your sister, to bad let her know what kind of a jerk her boyfriend is...

  • 1 decade ago

    he was drunk but was he to drunk to not know what he was doing, if he thinks he can get away with that he may try again be wary

  • 1 decade ago

    You should tell her. I mean you love her right? She deserves to know the truth. And if you don't tell her soon he might try to turn it around on you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    wow. haha. omg.

    maybe tell your sister that he did that.

    but then again you dont wont them to break up.

    i say just wait to see if he does something like that again

    and just tell HIM to quit messing with you. but since he was drunk, its sorda different becuase he wouldnt have none what he was doing.

    hoped i helped

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