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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Problems with girls, Do I have to be meaner?

I have this strange "trait" I can make friends really easy, To guys: I am the best to trade info on sports and the world at large, To women: I can make girls laugh and love me with little effort. But for some reason I cannot seem to get a girl to date me? It isn't like I am a bum(I work at an accounting firm at 17 years old)? I am not particularly bad looking either? So what is it? if you need more information just send me a message.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    No, you don't have to be meaner. Because then you will attract those type of girls. And there is a type. Girls (and I say girls because real women want real men. we've experienced enough to know we don't an asshole as our partner) that are attracted to meaner guys like the chase, the constant attempts to please him which joins the constant drama they desperately desire in life. But not all of them. there are some girls out there that like meaner guys because, well, most of the time this means they're flat out honest. even if that honesty is mean.

    and a 17 year old guy that works in an accounting firm deserves a girl that wants to work just as hard in life as it seems you do. and not wasting her time welcoming drama.

  • 1 decade ago

    maybe ur just not doing it right

    id go out wi th u if u picked me best answer XD jk

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