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Which one to pick????? ?

I dated this guy for almost 8 months and it was getting really bad so i ended it. then i moved on and i found this guy i really like and have liked for a few months and we have been on a few dates and now my ex has texted me and we hung out and had tryed to guilt me into dating him again but i dont know if its my feelings or if its something else.. i need help so do i pick the boy i really like or the guy who i loved..?? which one

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    hey sunny bunny.

    i say screw boys you know im the love of your life♥

  • 1 decade ago

    here is the functional part of your statement:

    "it was getting really bad".

    bieng "guilted" into dating someone is pathetic and it is not real feelings for him, the WORST thing you can do for you and him is to date him out of pity instead of love.

    thats what "guilting" someone into a relationship is and does- pity, not love.

    see what this other guy is like, odds are the feelings from your ex are nostalgia for the good times, not love.

    next time you feel like calling him remember all the bad things he did and the bad parts of your relationship, if you still feel the urge to call DESPITE those things, then call and take it slow and see what happens but odds are you are just nostalgic.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    dont go back to the old guy. It didnt work before why would it be any different now? Guilt trippin someone into dating them again is horrible and immature dont fall for it.

  • 1 decade ago

    i don't think love ever dies. true love anyway. you just hafta think about which guy you feel for more. but if things for horribly bad & now he hasta GUILT you into dating him, maybe you should consider a change. but if you truly do love him & want to be with him.. don't choose the person you like over the person you love.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Listen to ur self. You loved him in the past. It's time to move on. Forget the one you loved and think about ur future. Think about ur new possibilities.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell the old bf to get lost

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if i were you i would look back on why you ended the one you loved in the first place. if you think that you can fix that then i would go back out with him but if you think you cant fix it then go out with your current boyfriend instead

  • the guy new guy and not the ex

    (ex must have thought that u r makin him feel jealous)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You stay away from that ex he's nothing but trouble.

  • 1 decade ago

    the guy you like now...don't move back always progress

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