I am scared guys don't think i am attractive. What do i do?

Being attractive physically does only so much to get you noticed. Being confident, happy and caring is more appealing to the right guys than the perfect nose or highlights.

Focus on the beauty within and enjoy life. That's what is really attractive.

Guys dont just judge you by your appearance there also has to be a good personality. Almost every guy likes confidence, If your not confident with your sense of self most guys will be able to notice and thus might lose interest. Just decide on what look fits you best maybe ask some of your friends their opinion. If you truly want a relationship and not just a fling then just be yourself and make yourself available(no not like that), it may not be the quickest way to finding a guy, but it will work out better for you in the long run. Dont worry about your looks, how you look is only 1% of who you truly are as a person.

You are attractive, just not to those around you because they cant notice YOU!

At some point in HS, I started looking beyond the physical and found inward beauty or ugliness........strange things happened.

One girl I liked physically, started to look really bad inwardly while one girl that I always thought really wasn't physically attractive started looking attractive.

What I am getting at, you may not be the MOST attractive person physically, but if you have an inward beauty, then the guy who notices that will be one to want to date you for other than getting his rocks off.....not only because he took the time to know you but because he has seen something that others are missing out on.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if you are attractive inside, then who cares what your outward appearance is like.

Why do you want the issues that come with many guys liking you? The guy you are looking for may not be ready for you tomorrow, but HE will find you, trust me!

Nothing, I tell my girl all the time. Most guys are dogs, that means that all of them like sluts. Just be yourself and have confidence and self-esteem. You will find a man that likes you for you. It is the best move, and you will not lose you dignity, self-respect, and integrity!!

Sorry to tell you the truth about life, but you need to know, it sounds like you are in high school and still do not know about real life.

You are not missing out on anything but alot of trouble and getting involved in distracting worthless situations that will distroy your life.

Talk to your father, you need serious guidance. He might tell you things that you are on a good track and be lucky to stay on. Your mother will tell you she felt the same and will not feed you proper advice because alot of girls feel the way you do.

It is not just looks that guys are looking for. A sense of humor, self confidence, whit, charm,strength of character and a little sass are all good to start with. I myself find it very attractive when a woman knows who she is and what she wants from her life and from me. Don't change who you are to get guys cuz that usually has the opposite effect. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!

lol some guys think that your attractive but there are to afraid to ask you out becuase they don't have confidence or don't think they have a chance and the thing is you shouldn't change how you look just be your self.

You don't need ALL guys to think you're attractive. You only need one guy to think you're attractive. Be confident. He will show up when you least expect it. Be well groomed at all times. And act like a lady. Not like some girls act now. Guys do not like women who are too forward. They like to take the lead. So play it quiet and ladylike, a little shy. You will be surprised where that will take you.

Listen to kina she is right no matter what there has too be someone out there who thinks your attractive. why dont you just try and attract him and im sayin really try and ask for someone who thinks your attractive and you will find that person. good luck

I spent almost all of my middleschool year thinking that... i was wrong. The thing is - girls think guys are supposed to whistle and hoot at every attractive girl they see, but they dont.

So i thought everyone thought i was ugly! Finally in 9th grade i made friends with some honest guys. I asked them - do you think im attractive. They responded - "yeah, of course! your hot!"

Guys probably do think you are beautiful, but you have to have confidence in yourself.

It's been my experience that when I don't try so hard, someone finds me. Smile alot, and most importantly learn to be a good listener. Guys like that, listen and once in awhile ask him a question about what he's talking about. Once you get someone interested in what they have to say, they usually come back to tell you more.